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2023.06.01 01:17 ihcabih [FS][US-CA] Ubiquiti G3 Instant, G3 Flex, Flex Mini, Patch Cables, and Jabra Evolve 65
Up for sale is a variety of Ubiquiti items that I no longer need and a Jabra headset that was used for about a month.
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imgur - Ubiquiti G3 Instant - Excellent condition, was only used for a week or so when we were out of town and been stored away otherwise. Has been factory reset and will come in a G4 Instant box with new accessories. - $50 shipped
- Ubiquiti G3 Flex - Brand new, never used, just removed the plastic wrap but opted to go with a G4 Instant instead. - $75 shipped
- Ubiquiti Switch Flex Mini - Great condition, replaced with a Switch 8. Comes with USB-C power adapter. - $25 shipped
- Ubiquiti Patch Cables (3x 0.3m, 5x 0.1m) - Excellent condition, very flexible, were just used temporarily and mostly as filler for free shipping - $15 shipped for all
- Jabra Evolve 65 - Great condition, used for about a month when working remote and will include receiver, charging cable, and carrying case - $50 shipped
Payment will be via PayPal G&S. Let me know if you have any questions or want to bundle any items. Thanks for your interest!
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2023.06.01 01:17 Ok-Way8330 yeah, so my (29m) wife (25f) cheated "for the attention"
Dear diar... Reddit. First lets get some things out of the way:
Throwaway because of obvious reasons.
A wall of fucking text.
TLDR: GF of 10 years, wife less than a year, cheated because she wanted to explore and take back her body after childbirth. Wanted to feel hot and get attention, seems honest and very remorseful.
I am mainly looking for constructive input and a place to vent, so thanks for reading up and sharing your views.
To get to it;
To my unfortunate surprise the feelings of a semi smashing through my livingroom hit me friday at around 4 am, one month ago.
I'm a 29 year old guy who has dated my high school sweetheart for now 12 years total, we got married in July last year, bought our first home 2,5 years ago and (almost) without being biased we have the sweetest 2yearold little rascal keeping us busy.
To give some more background we are a couple who don't fight in the fighting sense of the word but still discuss our differences. We laugh alot, although not so much since i found out - we have the same values, share housework and even with most of our sex is based in the "everyday sex" its insanely good about 3/10 times. Apart from that she has alway been extremely clear on her views on cheating, suffers from depression and anxiety in periods, and has always had pretty bad self esteem. Comes from a home with an extremely dominant know-it-all father who parents solely with boundaries and verbal consequences, and has been through therapy based on that.
This Autumn my wife opened up the discussion about mixing our sexlife up by bringing in another partner into our bedroom. We had some back and forth open discussions and after quite a bit of consideration i told her that i weren't comfortable risking us for a fantasy - given that she primarily wanted to involve a dude, and i've read some horror stories.
In January she came home suspiciously drunk after a christmas party so i started asking and after feeling something was off i went to the stage of scrolling through her phone. For reference i have never had a trust issue with this girl, and haven't went through or felt the need to doing so before. We know eachothers pins, answer eachothers in-laws sms'es and are generally open about what's going on.
Scrolling through her phone i found a lengthy and flirty chat with a co-worker of hers where they were talking about "wanting to meet up" and "wanting to get to know eachother better."
We had a fight and a told her point blanc that this is a major breach of trust and that we gotta work on us more if she was interested in staying together. After things settled we had a new discussion about involving another party where i told her no. Along with this i told her that she had to figure out wether or not this was a dealbreaker on her end and if so we had to discuss how to move forward. She told me this was solely a search for external attention as she wanted to get attention and "feel sexy" and "wanted" after childbirth - she was genuinely remorseful for hurting me like this.
Then about 1 month ago a bombshell went off. She came home drunk af friday night after partying with a friend - not an issue in general, apart from being completely shitfaced. After putting her to bed her phone beeps, and its a snapchat from an unknown dude.
All of my red flags and alarm bells went off simultaniously as she also mumbled something about "why are there noone else here??" when heading to the bedroom.
Well fuck - new phonecheck. Snapchat from a dude - dickpick.
Turns out she has a secret "porn" snapchat, sexting with 8-10 dudes, sending nudes back and forth, bragging about blowing a co-worker and some other random guy and how hot that was along with "That he doesnt know almost makes it more exciting, its like im a completely different person." The snapchat dates back to 3 months before we got married, and is from all kinds of everyday at home situations, and portrays her as an absolute slut who loves to please men.
Dont get me wrong, i love a good slut, but if this is my wife she has to be mine and mine alone.
The chat with her co-worker is also back on messenger, some pics traded but nothing to graphic. "you can meet me tonight at the club if you wish ;)"
Fucking devastating read I'll tell you.
So after spending 4 hours picking all of her aps, tracking data, deleted items and whatnot to pieces i have a pretty decent idea of what's been going on. I confront her with this the next day, and alot of tears later she tells me what has happened, how many times with who etc.
I still believe she has told me the truth - i mean why lie at this point.
She has slept with her colleague after he invited himself to our place after a fight with his girlfriend when i was out of town. Along with this one of the snapchat dudes were on a business trip the weekend before. She suggested i leave to my parents so they get to see our son, and went on a legit "date" before heading back to his hotel.
We've now had some time to think and i gotta say I am very fucking torn on what's next.
We are considering 1:1 and couples therapy, and i keep asking myself wether i can forgive, want to forgive and think i can move past it. I believe her when she says it was all about the sex and attention - especcially regarding the snapchat dude, semi sceptical about the co-worker. Along with this we have had a couple of weeks with "normal" life, but its more distant on all levels, and generally a weird vibe.
From here i have been thinking the following which makes the dilemma impossible:
I can either be a naive fool trying to repair it for me, her and mostly my son, or i can split and we have a 50/50 custody solution, buy her out of our house and restart my life. Tearing my up untill 4 months ago perfect family apart.
Are there other solutions?
what do i need to ask myself?
How do i fucking cope with this shit regardless of the final outcome, and how long should i take before making life-changing decisions?
fuck.
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2023.06.01 01:17 Old_Replacement_6610 should i (20F) be okay with my bf (21M) sleeping over at his (21F) “friends” house without telling me?
some backstory my boyfriend and i have been dating for 8 months and met through a mutual friend, shortly after becoming bf and gf, i joined his friendship group, consisting of 2 women and 4 men (including my boyfriend) all age 21. one of the girls, we’ll call A, lives a 5 hour journey away and comes to visit the friends around every 6 weeks, she’s done this about five times i think. she stays over at the second girls house, and the whole group has sleepovers and drinking parties together. after being a part of this friendship group for around 2 months and meeting A once, my boyfriend’s best friend started to be mean to me, and I began to feel left out of the group and was starting to be unhappy, so I decided to stop meeting up with them. I told my boyfriend how I was feeling due to his friends, but he decided to not hold them accountable and just wanted to stay friends with them.
here’s where things started to get interesting, whenever A would come to visit them, my boyfriend would go out of his way to meet up with her every single day of her stay (which was usually about a week) cancelling our plans and not letting me know that he’d be unavailable because she would be there with him and their friends. which was just a bit annoying to begin with, but I understood as he didn’t get to see her often. he texts her daily, plays online games whilst talking to her on discord call too. after she would go back home he’d talk about her to me and tell me stories about her, like how my boyfriend’s best friend had started saying mean things to A like he had done with me, but instead of staying his friend like before, my boyfriend hasn’t spoken to him since! this made me feel like A’s feelings of sadness are more important to my boyfriend and my feelings of sadness. I let him know that her being one of his only topics of conversation at this time was making me feel like he liked her as more than friends. I broke down crying, having my first panic attack in years, sitting right in front of him. he was on his phone, scrolled through a few more TikTok‘s, and then decided to comfort me. he said “you just have to trust me”.
barely feeling reassured. I started to calm myself down as I knew this wouldn’t happen again for a few weeks, and it didn’t. even know she wasn’t mentioned in our conversations , I still knew they were texting and calling each other, but I started to feel okay. up until yesterday! I was at my boyfriend’s house last night and asked him what he was doing this week, he calmly said “oh shit, I forgot to tell you” and proceed to tell me how is travelling 5 hours to see A, tomorrow!!! which is now today. I was just in shock and confused why he didn’t ask how I would feel about this, at the least he could’ve told me more than 12 hours in advance. him and two other friends have gone to see A today (one M one F who are in a relationship) to me this seems like some sort of a double date thing. they are all sleeping over at A’s house for 5 nights and plan on getting drunk together, he says he is sleeping in a room by himself, but that doesn’t really reassure me. all of this compiled into one, is really starting to make me rethink our relationship. he knows my feelings, he has seen how upset I’ve gotten over this yet continue to act like he’s none the wiser. if I didn’t ask his plans for the week would he have ever told me?!
what more can I say to him?
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2023.06.01 01:17 Organic-Anxiety3406 My bf tried to lie to me about going to a strip club
My boyfriend was away for the weekend with his friends which i don’t have a problem with as i trust him, however on one of the nights, he was hardly responding to me, i tried phoning him as i get worried something bad has happened and it kept going to voicemail, finally he answered and he sounded annoyed that i phoned him. he told me he was fine and was going home soon, a few hours later he finally replied to me and said he was going home it was 4am by this point. He said he wasn’t answering me because he had no signal. The next day he was home and i saw him, i asked him where he went and stuff and he just said he went to a few bars. I believed him. The next day i saw him again and his friends were there and i heard them saying something about a strip club. later on i asked my boyfriend about this and asked if he went in with his friends and he denied it and said him and his other friend who’s also in a relationship waited outside, i could just tell he was lying so i told him to just tell me the truth and finally he said he did go in there but only for about 10 minutes. I asked him why he lied to me and tried to also deny it and he said he was scared to tell me cause he thought i’d be upset. He was very apologetic and i could tell he felt bad about the situation, He said he didn’t want to go in there but none of his friends would wait outside with him and they was just saying ‘come on’ i always thought his friends were nice and respected our relationship but after this i’m not sure what to think. Personally i’m not upset he went into the strip club but the fact that he lied about it and wasn’t responding to me that night? he’s never given me a reason to to trust him in our 2 years together until this, i know he doesn’t like clubbing, and he’s told me he doesn’t like strip clubs but then why would he hide it from me? he’s supposed to be going on holiday with these same friends soon and now i don’t really trust him to go after this situation as he clearly just follows what his friends do.
is it normal for me to feel upset or is am i just being dramatic? nothing like this has ever happened before so i think he didn’t know how to tell me about it without hurting my feelings. i just can’t help thinking he would’ve never told me if i hadn’t found out?
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2023.06.01 01:17 Civil_Preparation934 [16M] [friendship] CANT SAYYYY HOW THE DAYS WILL UNFOLLLDDD
Anyway about me, I am a huge, huge romantic. Seriously might be the biggest romantic here. Challenge me. I dare you.
I love music, heres my top TWENTY!
- The Nights - Avicii
- Future Days - Pearl Jam
- My Person - Spencer Crandall
- Hurt - Johnny Cash
- Jailhouse Rock - Elvis Presley
- Stand By Me - Ben. E. King.
- If The World Was Ending - J.P Saxxe feat. Julia Michaels
- Hey Soul Sister - Train
- Running Home To You - Grant Gustin
- Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol
- You Were Meant For Me - Jewel
- All The Faces - Creed Bratton
- Drops Of Jupiter - Train
- Photograph- Ed Sheeran
- Tenerife Sea - Ed Sheeran
- You'll Never Walk Alone - Gerry & The Pacemakers
- Perfect - Ed Sheeran
- Rewind - Goldspot
- The Funeral - Band of Horses
- The Wind - Yusuf/Cat Stevens
Shows:
- How I Met Your Mother - 19 watches
- The Office US - 7 watches
- Brooklyn 99 - 4 or 5 watches
- Peaky Blinders - currently watching for first time (S6 E2)
- The Big Bang Theory - 3 or 4 watches
Books:
- Skulduggery Pleasant - 39 reads
- Percy Jackson - 17 reads
- Harry Potter - 8 reads
Also writing my own two books, want to be an author. Both on wattpad. The @ is WWEUOfficial.
Goodnight and Goodmorning
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2023.06.01 01:16 Civil_Preparation934 [16M] CANT SAYYY HOW THE DAYS WILL UNFOLLDD
[16M] CANT SAY HOW THE DAYS WILL UNFOLDD
Anyway about me, I am a huge, huge romantic. Seriously might be the biggest romantic here. Challenge me. I dare you.
I love music, heres my top TWENTY!
- The Nights - Avicii
- Future Days - Pearl Jam
- My Person - Spencer Crandall
- Hurt - Johnny Cash
- Jailhouse Rock - Elvis Presley
- Stand By Me - Ben. E. King.
- If The World Was Ending - J.P Saxxe feat. Julia Michaels
- Hey Soul Sister - Train
- Running Home To You - Grant Gustin
- Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol
- You Were Meant For Me - Jewel
- All The Faces - Creed Bratton
- Drops Of Jupiter - Train
- Photograph- Ed Sheeran
- Tenerife Sea - Ed Sheeran
- You'll Never Walk Alone - Gerry & The Pacemakers
- Perfect - Ed Sheeran
- Rewind - Goldspot
- The Funeral - Band of Horses
- The Wind - Yusuf/Cat Stevens
Shows:
- How I Met Your Mother - 19 watches
- The Office US - 7 watches
- Brooklyn 99 - 4 or 5 watches
- Peaky Blinders - currently watching for first time (S6 E2)
- The Big Bang Theory - 3 or 4 watches
Books:
- Skulduggery Pleasant - 39 reads
- Percy Jackson - 17 reads
- Harry Potter - 8 reads
Also writing my own two books, want to be an author. Both on wattpad. The @ is WWEUOfficial.
Goodnight and Goodmorning
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2023.06.01 01:15 SubstanceComplex527 Just ended a relationship and I’m baffled ..
So I ( M25) visit a friend ( F25 )from high school , while on a trip to my hometown. I’ve always stayed in touch with her as she was a great friend and honestly there was always an attraction towards each other.
Note , I’ve been single for 3 years now as I’ve been really focusing on my career , my mental health and really trying to get rid of habits I saw would really affect my relationships in the future.
When we hang out it was instant fireworks , we really hit it off. We make it back to her place and we sleep together ( no sex ) and when we wake up the next day we started talking about if we could see anything happening in the future.
She says “ I want to be your girlfriend, I don’t want to JUST be talking to you , we’ve known each other for years I don’t see why we have to go through that phase “
I explain to her that while we have stayed in touch , the versions of ourselves present at this time still don’t know eachother enough to become that serious so quickly , I did want to talk to her and honestly rushing into a relationship after so much time alone felt like a bad idea to me , plus I live in a whole other state and I literally just started a business. My attention right now is a bit occupied but after some thinking I thought what the hell , I know myself and I know it’s rare that I feel THIS comfortable around a person. Let’s try it.
I get back and me n her are on the phone 24/7. I mean we spent a literal 24 hours on the phone just talking and laughing , I guess trying the long distance thing out. As the days go by I start to notice she has an ungodly amount of time on her hands something that I really have to move the sun and moon for. But what the hell I said for a long distance thing to work I have to dedicate a little bit more time than usual.
At this point I’m realizing she also goes out a lot , she would frequent a bar that not only she had worked at but where she had made a number of friends over the years.
Well the phone calls started getting really toxic when ever she was done going out. Inebriated, she would get really defensive and her temper would flare to extreme levels. On the first occasion , she got upset because I told her she should probably get something to eat and some water because she was so blacked out drunk she wasn’t speaking coherently. She lives alone and the thought of something tragic happening stressed me out to no end. She hangs up on me that night and calls me hours later waking me up.
she continues the night talking to me as if she didn’t just hang up on me mid sentence. Again I let her know she should probably get some rest and that I am a little upset by the way she’s treating me at the moment. I still let her know I forgive her because she’s not all there at the moment but my feelings were voiced. She hangs up on me again , the third time she wakes up and this time it’s 5 in the morning and she is crying and apologizing. I tell her it’s okay just please get some rest we will talk later. She hangs up on me again.
When we end up speaking about what happened she lets me know that she can behave that way when she is drunk to not take it so personally. “ I might even call you names so Im sorry if I do”
I let her know that if something like that happens I would not tolerate it as I grew up in a household where alcohol was a problem. Two days later she’s drunk at a party face timing me. She’s on a couch , completely wasted staring at my angry face. I ask her hows she’s going to get home and she begins to give me defensive responses. I let her know that I’m not going to argue with her when’s she’s drunk because she loses her temper and I don’t want talk to that person. She hangs up on me and I spend the next two days living my life. I do not ignore her I just let her know that i need space right now to think about what’s best for her and for myself .
It was too much for her to wait so she txts me “ if you’re gonna break up with me just do it already don’t have me sitting her worrying “
I proceed to call her and let her know I do not think this is going to work out . She started yelling at me , scolding me for “giving up “so quickly . Up to this point I’ve been keeping my cool but when she started disrespecting me I had lost my cool. It ended with the nastiest break up I’ve ever had. I blocked her on everything and I sit here with the thought that wtf just happened over the last month
Anyway I post this because I’m confused on why she hates me so mucho right now. She’s the one who changes when she’s drunk and belittles and disrespects me why would anyone put up with that ? Why doesn’t she understand she can’t treat people like that ?
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2023.06.01 01:15 vtvo Question about Termite inspection and home inspection contingency
Hello, I am currently in escrow and I have a 10 day home inspection contingency. However, we noted in the terms that the seller is the one that must pay and provide us with the inspection and clearance report for termites.
10 days is almost approaching and seller has not yet done the termite clearance/inspection. Am I forced to sign and remove the home inspection contingency on the 10th day, or am I able to delay it due to the seller being slow on this? Home inspection is my only contingency so I am trying to careful on this and not lose my earnest money. Thank you!
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2023.06.01 01:15 throwthewholemansout Advice on holding an intervention for my mom
This is going to be long, since I feel I need to do a lot of explanation to demonstrate the severity of everything. So buckle up for this ride.
My mother has been an alcoholic her entire adult life. It was hidden from my siblings and I as kids, but since 2015 it’s gotten progressively worse and obvious. She is now at the point where she drinks every night, and has started drinking during the day as well. She has also gone through periods where she drives drunk, and has been doing so again.
It’s not surprising that she has this problem, her entire childhood led up to this. She was born and lived in El Salvador’s until she was 14, and was physically abused by her mother who blamed her for being cut off from her family for having my mom out of wedlock. She was molested by multiple family members from a young age. Then during the war she saw violence and hundreds of dead bodies multiple times. She was treated poorly and lived in poverty as other immigrants often are when her family came to the US.
She already had a drinking problem when she met my father. He, not understanding what an addiction is really like back in the 90s, enabled her and continues to do so even today. He is also a narcissist and controlling, so I imagine this has something to do with it as well.
My father has intense rage issues. All four of us grew up in an extremely abusive home, experiencing emotional and physical abuse from both of them. My siblings and I all have intense trauma and issues because of it. My parents also abuse each other, having intense fights where items are thrown, one of them leaves in the middle of the night, and/or cops get called. Dad has also always refused to stop drinking and smoking weed in the house, stating her problems shouldn’t be his. This triggers her all the time.
My mother was diagnosed with panic disorder and depression in 2019. She mixes her meds with alcohol every day. She was 51 then 5250d in 2021 for claiming she took all her meds one day while drunk to kill herself (plot-twist, this was a lie). She hurts herself often and we believe she is beginning to experience the beginnings of live disease as she is morbidly obese, doesn’t eat anymore, shits liquid and often blood. She refuses to be honest with her doctors about her alcohol use.
She’s attempted to stop before, but only by shortly going to AA or outpatient rehab before dropping out. My parents go back and forth saying the other one rejects the idea of inpatient rehab. I keep telling my dad to get her an IID on her car but he says she’d be embarrassed.
My two sisters and I still live in the home, as my parents have made it incredibly difficult for us to be independent. My dad has made sure all four of us have always stayed reliant on them in some way. We all see drama firsthand every single day.
Multiple family members get into fights all the time. I usually have to mediate. My mother blames my father every day when she’s drunk claiming he ruined her life and it’s his fault we lost our home and that she is the way she is. She also seeks me out, switching between wanting to tell me stories of her trauma and calling me a druggie slut that also ruined her life. She follows us both around the house to do so. Their fights have traumatized me so much that every noise I hear from upstairs results in me hearing their voices arguing every night. I have a tick now that makes me need to call my dad or sister, or listen against the door to the stairs to confirm what’s happening. Often it’s just normal talking or the TV. I for ear plugs, but I still hear their voices when anxious.
I have been making plans to move out, but multiple reasons have made it difficult, though now it will happen in the near future.
My dad has talked about having interventions and “conversations” with her for years. It never goes anywhere, and financial circumstances have up until recently made it impossible for her to go to inpatient rehab. He finally is in a good position financially to do so, and seems more serious about it. Thing is, any conversation we have she always agrees and promises to stop, but nothing happens. I believe we need to have a spot for her lined up same day if we’re going to do this.
How do we go about this? Should we have a professional be present? I worry about doing this alone since most of the family cannot control their tempers. At the same time I’m scared all the commotion of the family would be too much for the interventionist. I also worry about the fact that my mother knows and uses the fact that my father and I have both abused drugs as a defense. I’m 27 and have party kinda of often( electronic scene) but have calmed down and lot and not heavily abused drugs for years. My father heavily abused many drugs until he had multiple heart attacks last year. He no longer uses cocaine but has started smoking and drinking occasionally again. I know for a fact she will call this out and I’m not sure how we’d respond to that without escalating.
I’m honestly not even convinced that rehab would help. She has a lifetime is extreme trauma and issues that she refuses to talk about with mental health professionals or anyone if she’s sober. I truly see her drinking for the rest of her life. A big issue is that there are virtually no consequences we can seriously dole out. My dad will never divorce her or kick her out because they are extremely codependent and he has major guilt issues. He will never prevent her from driving. He just bought her a new Benz for Christ’s sake! None of us have the capability of cutting her off right now - my sisters and I live with them, both sisters are in college, and my brother who is autistic and struggles with decent employment works for them. I’ve chosen not to interact with her in the past, but it just made her worse! There’s also 0% chance he will do the research to get her set up for rehab, as he never follows through with anything.
I truly believe this will be nothing but a money sink and that she will drink until she dies from an overdose or an accident. My father, her, and the rest of our family are too fucked up or toxic. My dad will most definitely drive her to relapse with his bullshit. But we have to give it a try. Otherwise it’s guaranteed she’ll never change.
If you made it through this, thank you so much for spending that time. I am very grateful for any advice given and hope that I find the light at the end of this tunnel. I feel for everyone here in similar positions.
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2023.06.01 01:15 autisticvivi life’s going to shit
Hello, I’m vivi but you can also call me Val, I’m F(13) and like the caption said my life is going to shit. For a little context I have struggled with mental health issues and I grown up in a broken home. Which means emotionally unstable mother and absent father. Two years ago, My mother got into a relationship with step-dad everything was going well til mid year of 2022 into 2023. Their relationship is falling apart. I’m falling apart. They were happy together for a while but something just changed, I been on and off medications like no tomorrow and I have a bad habit of cutt!ng. any advice for my mental health or their relationship? Any help would be appreciated. ♡
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2023.06.01 01:15 Tiny_Shake_4448 [NM] Can employer find out why I took FLMA leave?
Tricky question, back in 2020 I was going through a period of loss, trauma and grief, everything was shut down, experienced a bad break up and unfortunately slipped into bad drinking habits. I was missing a lot of work and I was not doing so well, I got one write up and had a no call no show. Supervisor was on my tail. Of course before I let it sabatoge my career I decided to get help. My supervisor and HR approved my FLMA request and I completed my program and once released continued to take counseling and eventually got better and continued to succeed.
Fast forward 2021, I moved from my home state just for a change. I returned in 2023. Still succeeding. I applied for the same job, different county and landed the interview. Aced it. I passed my drug test, fingerprints for backround check came back great. One of my references did let me know they were asking why I took leave which concerned me a little. Of course he said he wasnt sure. Not his business. Still got the offer and start date and accepted said offer. Now got another call the following day saying they need to do one more reference check from my previous supervisor and depending on that may rescind my offer. My supervisor knew what was happening during that time because I confided in him, we had a great relationship but it did become rocky in the end before I went on FLMA. Before I resigned we did have closure, before my events I was hard working constantly picking up OT. Question is- Will this be something that can ruin my chance? What can be disclosed legally? This is a state job. I already put in my notice at my current job and extremely worried.
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2023.06.01 01:15 Dragonfruit_Friend Actor choosing to leave
I struggled to find an appropriate title but essentially I just wanted to praise the writers and other crew members / producers etc for allowing Juliette the to leave the show this season. They could have potentially dragged her character arc out another season and not let her leave but they obviously were like "you want to leave? That's okay, we'll write you out this season, no stress on staying another year". I was just reflecting on this on my drive home and how often an actor is probably forced to stay in a show because someone tells them they are obligated to stay another year due to contractual agreements, but, for whatever reason- they allowed JL to bow out when she had personal reasons to go. That's just really nice, even if I amongst others didn't particularly like the way adult Nat left. :)
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2023.06.01 01:15 Fun_Technician138 Please tell me someone else has broken a windshield trying to replace wipers -.- yikes
I work at a Ford dealership, and basically only work on Fords. RAM Rebel comes in for a works. Everything goes well (besides burning my thumb on hot oil trying to get the oil filter out). Not trying to rush but I am ready to go home since they came in less than an hour before the end of my shift. To my surprise, we have the correct wiper size and the customer wanted them per my recommendation! I’m used to F150 wiper arms that don’t need to be pushed back far to lock into place, but I guess I didn’t push the wiper arm back far enough on the passenger side for this truck and now they need a new windshield! Yikes! Please tell me someone else has done this, I feel so horrible :(
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2023.06.01 01:14 elizzzx Mail-In Application to Iceland
Has anybody experienced mailing-in their application? I’m in the US as a permanent resident.
I’m within the 59-month timeline for a previous Schengen visa so I would think I’m eligible for mail-in application. My visa was delivered to the VFS Washington office today but now it says it’s being sent back through FedEx to my home address tomorrow. I checked my documents a thousand times making sure they’re complete.
I’m just worried that it was automatically denied. Im hoping they could at least contact me if I needed to submit any additional document they require.
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2023.06.01 01:14 OddHorse6269 what are some things I could do to pass time at my graveyard shift?
I work at a youth home and for the most of the night I have alot of free time. I usually watch TV and movies, do word searches, color, hand-sew, read, and scroll on my phone. I'm just looking for some different ideas on how to pass time.
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2023.06.01 01:14 ConsiderationAny5906 Advice on cat I thought was a stray.
Hi everyone, just looking for opinions/advice on our situation, throw away account. Around 2 years ago a small perhaps 1 year old cat started hanging around outside the house (uk) It would Creep in whilst we had doors open in summer and want fuss, we’d oblige as we’re animal lovers but then gently encourage her to leave, she’d come back next day or even through windows in the night occasionally (bungalow) this carried on for a few months all the while she seemed to be getting thinner, I asked the neighbours if she was theirs and no one said yes, a couple of neighbours said they do have strays locally, there’s a large Manor House and grounds near by so I assumed this was the case and we started to feed her. We also checked all forums and Facebook pages etc for lost pets for at least 6 months just in case but never saw anything. Quite quickly she made herself at home and would stay in the house all day and night just going out for a couple of hours for a mooch as they do. Gained weight and was very happy, her favourite spot was on my young daughters bed, needless to say we all fell in love with her. Fast forward 2 years and she was off her food for a few days so we took her to the vet for a checkup and get her chipped. The vet said she seemed fine and healthy but when we explained how we came to have her she scanned her and turns out she was chipped and had owners. The vets called them, they said they had not seen her for 2 years and presumed her dead, they were happy and wanted her back. We were gutted as we wanted to keep her but we had to give them their cat back so arranged that through the vet. I blamed myself for not getting her scanned sooner and told myself she’d be happy back home but to be honest we were quite depressed about the situation. My kids wrote a letter to just to say they were happy they’d found her and we left our number. Didn’t hear anything (if it was me I would of probably just sent a little text to say think you for taking care but whatever!) we were going on holiday the next week and had already organised a house sitter for cat and our tortoise & fish, so they still came even tho we didn’t have the cat there. A few days in we had a txt to say the cat was outside meowing to come in. We had already explained the cat situation so told sitter to not let her in but when she txt agin the next day to say the cat had not left the garden I broke and told her to let her in and feed her. I’m starting to think that she obviously doesn’t want to be with her owners, she showed up 11 days after we took her in (owners should of kept her in to reacclimatise?) it’s day 15 now, back from holiday a few days, she was so happy to see us and I don’t have the heart to kick her out. They have our number and haven’t called but she’s been here all day and night barring an hour or 2 so they can’t have seen her for 4 days at least. My biggest problem is we are moving in a couple of weeks. I want to take her with us. What should I do? It seems more cruel to me to separate her from us when we’ve taken care of her for most of her life.
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2023.06.01 01:14 Reasonable-Bug-8596 Chubby on the way to FAT. Next steps.
Hi all. I’m currently digesting the next steps to take. I’m fairly new to this, and want to make sure I’m taking the right steps for me and my family.
Currently $2m+/- NW $900k money market acct $200k various stocks/etfs $250k equity primary residence $600k equity over 4 SF rentals Plus ownership of a business in construction/design services
Last year’s total cash flow from the business was $1.3m $600k year before, $300k before that On track for another $700k-$1m this year.
I’m not including business in my NW as it’s hard to value.
Other than owning 4 cash flowing SF rentals, I have just been piling money into a money market acct, essentially punting until I figure out the best strategy.
I’ve done a few small land/subdivision deals. Don’t really want to deal with more tenants/rentals. It’s a large time suck replacing air conditioners/septic systems/repairs etc.
I’m a little scared to put anything in the market right now, even SPY etc.
Is the best course of action to keep piling into money market while it’s almost 5%, and just wait out whatever downturn looks likely?
Business is in commercial land dev, so very sensitive to interest rates.
Dollar cost average? Take the plunge and interview advisors? More rentals and hire a property manager?
How have you all made the transition from nothing to moderate net worth to manage?
I started out very broke (minimum wage/sales/construction labor) before pursuing degree/license/business, so this is uncharted territory
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