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2015.03.06 20:40 Trevor_Skies General Info of AZ the Comedy Scene

Arizona has been a growing place to do stand-up with plenty of places to get stage time as well as many alternative comedy shows for those seeking a new writing perspective in general. This subreddit is for those willing to graciously share new sign-up-and-go open mics in the area or any show in general. If your brave enough post your set and ask for critiques. Personally I'm not a fan of taking it too seriously but maybe thats hubris.

2012.10.17 21:37 Desomniac Seattle's Reddit Community

SeattleWA is the active Reddit community for Seattle, Washington and the Puget Sound area! Do you want lively open discussions, upcoming events, local artist creations, community meet-ups, Seattle history, current news, community outreach, and careful transparent moderation? This place is for you.

2023.06.01 00:18 The_Creeper_Man Haven't played since last June. Went from around 70% to 100%. Currently at 80% on ToE2, coming from 19%.

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2023.06.01 00:18 Funkiebastard For the first time I really feel worried that I don't know what I'm doing with my life

I've always read post/heard other people worry about where they're going in life, but I've never been bothered by that. I've always known I'd manage, I did for good while. I got interviews for jobs, my studies felt like I was taking a step forward to finding something I like, I wasn't very social but I never felt lonely or alone, and I could disregard the random thoughts when I started to compare myself to others
But now, I don't know. I applied for many internships and didn't get any while others in my course did, and I couldn't (still can't) figure out what I did wrong. Why was I not enough while they were? I've applied to jobs without hearing anything back. I'm not sure where my studies are taking me, this year's has been worthless and every time I start on an assignment I feel like it's meaningless. I don't know if it's too easy, or if I'm misunderstanding something. The people in my course stress out and study a lot while I don't, barely know what I do during the days except maybe read and tv shows and suduko. Why do they study so much and not me? What's so challenging/important to study that I'm not doing? I'm still passing, I'm about average with the class, get some A's and some D's, since starting uni I've only gotten 1 F, but then I got a D. Never an E. And socially it's declining. Since starting uni I've only made one friend. The people in my program have a group chat without me and I know they meet up at times. While I understand why I wasn't included (as I wasnt living in the same city and Improves had post-Covid so I struggled with a lot of mental stuff, like remembering things or concentration), it still makes me feel like I'm unworthy. When I try to speak with new people I can feel how they don't want to talk to me, and might even be making them uncomfortable but I can't for the life of me figure out what I'm doing wrong. When I meet with friends it's nothing different. I don't feel like I've changed a lot through the years, but lately I feel like people's attitude towards me are changing. I feel unworthy and not good enough.
I'm worried I'm getting stuck, and that I don't care enough. I want to care and start doing things, catch up with life and in life, but I have no idea how to even remotely start and I don't know. I don't understand what it is I'm struggling with. Or of I'm just being lazy (?) And getting comfortable with it (??). This is not the life I want to lead but I can't seem to move on. I don't know what I'm doing with myself or my life
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2023.06.01 00:18 inner-peace_ 29F anyone up for a chat? Let me know

Hey! Looking for a chat buddy who is my age or older. I prefer if you’re in a relationship cause I am in one as well. But everyone is welcome. If interested, DM me and tell me how your day is going.
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2023.06.01 00:18 samep04 Network Manager Applet is giving unwanted notifications (ubuntu 23.04)

I'm not really a noob to linux, as i've been using it for 15+ years. But i never got into programming or doing very in-depth stuff. i feel comfortable with lists of terminal commands and such.
But i've recently updated to ubuntu 23.04 and am opening my computer up from sleep to find "Network Manager Applet" telling me (with so very many messages) that i'm now connected/disconnected.

Clearly it is connecting/disconnecting a few times while in sleep mode when i'm not using it. I didn't have this issue before the upgrade from 22.xx

I don't need/want these notifications. Any way to stop them?
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2023.06.01 00:18 InternationalPlane45 Hate my project?

I recently joined a project and I absolutely hate it. The work doesn’t at all align with my personal career goals, and every day I feel like I’m wasting my time on learning things that won’t be useful to me in the future.
Everyone I spoke to talked this project up because there’s a lot of opportunities to interact with PPMDs, however, these PPMDs are part of an offering I have no interest in. I’m afraid this is going to end up boxing me into this offering, and I’ll never be able to get out of it.
Does anyone have any advice? I’m staffed on this project for the next year, but can’t fathom another year of this.
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2023.06.01 00:18 irjdkanymore I don't know if it's reasonable to sustain this relationship?

I'm tired of driving back and forth to my partner. It's been 2.5 years long-distance and it'll be another 2 years before we can even think about living together. I feel like we're stuck in this phase where it's just me driving back and forth to them. I work full-time, sometimes part-time and keep busy with hobbies. I rent a room b/c I honestly cannot afford to live alone on my salary. I've had shitty situations with roommates in the past. My partner is a full-time student in a doctorate program. I've noticed that both of us have gained a significant amount of weight throughout this relationship. I'm honestly afraid to look at the scale at this point. I've picked up really bad eating habits with them. I think this relationship brought on a different type of stress than I've been accustomed to.
The first year I met them, they weren't in school. So dynamics were a bit different. Lately, I've been reflecting and I feel like I give up my time, gas money, and energy to spend time with them when they have time. I've tried to be accommodating b/c school comes first but I have not been able to put myself first in this relationship. Even when I visit, I'm limited on the hours I can visit. Also they do not have an income so it's been very difficult. I've taken the financial responsibility to offset the costs of our dates, activities, events, or whatever. When we spend time w/ their family, that costs even more money that I cannot budget for or even expect b/c it just happens. Yet I make a pretty low salary for the cost of living in my area.
It doesn't feel fair to me. I'm always so exhausted and can't even stick to my budget b/c there are too many variables. They live rent free with their mom. They're currently full time in a doctorate program. So there is very little time for me. I've become accustomed to seeing them on a very rigid schedule. Sometimes we won't see each other for weeks. Texts/calls are limited in a way where I'm always told, "Well, I have to go or sorry to cut you off." At first I was very understanding and now I'm beyond frustrated b/c it feels like whenever I get comfortable in the conversation or with them, there is a limit and I'm cut off. Then other times it's like they're overwhelmingly wanting to spend time w/ me, in their time off affection, and etc... when I need to reacclimate to being around them in that capacity.
I'm not certain if I have the patience for another 2 years. I love this person greatly but this has been incredibly difficult and I find myself getting more and more frustrated even when we talk things out. I want to settle down. I want to live with my partner and start taking milestones towards settling down. I'm tired of the back and forth. I want to have a conversation without being cut off.
I've also been working on myself the past year. Started therapy, finding hobbies, and building social connections. Recently, I've been super involved in my hobbies. They came w/ me to one event and got upset w/ me, I felt bad, missed out on another event I planned on going to (even invited my partner) w/some friends but they weren't happy until I spent that time in the way they intended. I was so emotionally exhausted that I just cancelled everything for the remainder of the week. Another thing I cannot prepare for is when we're upset with each other and how draining that can be.They were mainly upset b/c they felt like I have a life outside of them and they're not included in my plans and they're struggling socially and they have absolutely nothing planned on their time off(they're doing clinical right now).I've literally planned so many of our dates in the past... I don't see why I always have to be responsible. It would honestly be nice if they planned something instead of expecting me to constantly take charge.I was also very upset and resentful that I didn't get to do the events I planned on doing and how I lost so much energy to do the things I wanted b/c of the whole situation.
I also feel like I want freedom, flexibility and my time back. I want to know if I intend to commit to something, nothing out of my control will prevent that. I've had to sacrifice so much for this relationship, time, money, inner peace, and energy. I've been really depressed lately and this relationship has only made it worse. They haven't even noticed that I'm actually depressed b/c they're so overwhelmed. When I communicate my frustrations or reasons why I'm upset they start crying and I feel guilty for saying how I feel or what frustrates me & it always goes back to how they're overwhelmed and how they can't handle things. I feel like I have to say what they want to hear b/c they're so sad but it's building resentment. Lots and lots of resentment. I am struggling with setting boundaries b/c for some reason I feel like this bad person when I try to. I don't know if this relationship is worth it. I don't know if I'm getting the things I need from it. I really don't know if sacrificing my sleep, my money, or my inner peace is worth the love, trust, and relationship I have with this person. I am so tired of going back and forth for nothing to change. I am so confused and cannot look at this objectively b/c they have made me feel incredibly loved, accepted, and make time/effort for me when they can. I just think the things I truly value from them aren't possible for a while and I don't know if this is something that'll pass with time or won't. They do make efforts in other ways but I'm honestly at the point where I don't think it's making any difference for me. I'm so conflicted between what I feel like I need and my love for them.
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2023.06.01 00:17 Kefirdrinker96 Anyone else shift through obsessive phases

for me it’s either movies, music or cooking and I’ll spend 99% of my free time searching watching listening cooking whatever phase it is
Just got out of movie phase which lasted around 3 months, would watch 5-6 a week and sometimes 2 in one day.
Now it’s music and I’m frantically listening through compilation albums and then heading to discogs so I can find YouTube videos of recordings that aren’t on Spotify and then getting mad that they aren’t on Spotify because I want to add them to playlists and listen while I’m working off my phone
these end up consuming me and becoming my life and all I can talk about and becoming my identity and now I’m angry because the documentary about this music scene that only lasted 5 years tops doesn’t have English subtitles
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2023.06.01 00:17 _Nightscape_ My Two month plan to become a GM for Pathfinder - Month One. What can be improved?

ChatGPT helped me come up with this study plan to learn to host a one-shot Pathfinder game in two months. Here is the first month; the detail is too long for one post. Any suggestions on how to improve the study guide is appreciated.
Week 1:
Nightly Homework (Week 1):
Create a Sample Character:
For each night of Week 1, your homework will revolve around creating a sample character. This exercise will help you familiarize yourself with the character creation process and the various options available to players in Pathfinder 2nd Edition. Here's a breakdown of the nightly tasks:
By completing these nightly homework tasks, you'll have a fully fleshed-out sample character ready for your one-shot session. This exercise will give you a deeper understanding of character creation and the mechanics of Pathfinder 2nd Edition. It will also help you become familiar with the specific abilities and options available to players, enabling you to better guide your players when they create their own characters for the game.
Weekend Project (Week 1): Create a Sample Adventure Scene
Rather than focusing on a full encounter or puzzle, for this weekend project, you'll create a sample adventure scene based on the chapters you've read so far. This exercise will help you apply your knowledge of character creation, basic gameplay, and equipment. Here's how you can approach it:
  1. Setting: Choose a location for your adventure scene. It could be a dense forest, a mysterious cave, or a bustling marketplace. Consider the atmosphere, potential challenges, and the overall theme or purpose of the scene.
  2. Characters: Create a few non-player characters (NPCs) that the player character(s) may encounter in the scene. Give them names, appearances, and brief descriptions. Consider their roles, motivations, and how they can interact with the player character(s).
  3. Goal or Objective: Determine the goal or objective of the adventure scene. It could be a simple task like delivering a message, solving a minor conflict, or gathering information from an NPC. Keep it focused and achievable within the scope of a one-shot session.
  4. Challenges and Interactions: Plan potential challenges or interactions that the player character(s) may face in the scene. These can be skill-based encounters, social interactions, or small combat situations. Ensure that the challenges align with the rules you've learned so far, such as skills, feats, or basic combat mechanics.
  5. Rewards or Consequences: Consider the potential rewards or consequences for the player character(s) based on their actions or choices in the scene. These can include valuable information, new equipment, or minor impacts on the overall story. Ensure that the rewards or consequences are meaningful and have a direct impact on the narrative or gameplay.
By creating a sample adventure scene, you'll get a hands-on experience in applying the rules and concepts you've learned. It will also give you a chance to practice designing encounters, creating NPCs, and guiding the player's choices within a focused setting. Remember to keep it manageable within the time constraints of a one-shot session.
Week 2:
Nightly Homework (Week 2):
Create a Brief Outline for Your One-Shot Session:
During Week 2, your homework will revolve around creating a brief outline for your one-shot session. This exercise will help you structure the narrative, plan key encounters, and consider important NPCs and their motivations. Here's a breakdown of the nightly tasks:
By completing these nightly homework tasks, you'll have a solid outline for your one-shot session. This exercise will help you structure the session's narrative and encounters, ensuring an engaging and coherent gameplay experience. It will also provide you with a framework to guide your players through the session and keep the game flowing smoothly.
Weekend Project (Week 2): Create a Detailed Map for Your One-Shot Session
For this weekend project, you'll create a detailed map for the locations where your one-shot session takes place. Having a well-designed map helps both you and the players visualize the environment, navigate the areas, and adds immersion to the game. Follow these steps to create your map:
  1. Determine Key Locations: Identify the important locations in your one-shot session, such as a town, dungeon, or wilderness area. Consider the purpose and significance of each location within the narrative.
  2. Sketch the Layout: Begin by sketching a rough layout of each location. It doesn't have to be artistically perfect, but it should provide a general sense of the area's layout, including key features, landmarks, and points of interest.
  3. Add Details: Add details to your sketch, including specific rooms, structures, or natural features. Consider the purpose and function of each area within the location. Incorporate any elements that may affect gameplay, such as obstacles, traps, or hidden passages.
  4. Label and Annotate: Label the various areas and features on your map to provide clarity. Use descriptive names for key locations, and annotate important details or notes that will assist you during the game. This can include NPC locations, potential encounters, or any relevant information for the players.
  5. Finalize the Map: Once you're satisfied with the sketch and details, transfer it to a clean or digital format. You can use map-making software or online tools to create a more polished version of your map. Consider adding color, shading, or symbols to enhance readability and aesthetics.
  6. Optional: Create Player Handouts: If desired, consider creating separate maps or handouts for the players to use during the game. These can be smaller sections of the main map or specialized maps for specific encounters or challenges.
By creating a detailed map, you'll have a visual representation of the locations in your one-shot session. This will aid in describing the environment to the players, planning encounters, and ensuring consistency in your storytelling. It will also serve as a valuable reference during the game, helping you navigate the world and keep track of important details.
Week 3:
Nightly Homework (Week 3):
Create Compelling Non-Player Characters (NPCs):
During Week 3, your nightly homework will revolve around creating memorable and engaging NPCs that the players will encounter in your one-shot session. NPCs can bring life to the game world, provide quests or information, and offer opportunities for interaction. Here's a breakdown of the nightly tasks:
By completing these nightly homework tasks, you'll have a roster of well-developed NPCs that can enrich your one-shot session. These NPCs will have distinct personalities, backgrounds, and motivations, making them more engaging for the players to interact with. They can provide quests, information, or become recurring allies or adversaries, adding depth to the game world and enhancing the overall storytelling experience.
Weekend Project (Week 3): Design a Dynamic Encounter
For this weekend project, you'll design a dynamic encounter that offers an engaging and challenging experience for the players in your one-shot session. A dynamic encounter includes multiple elements, such as combat, environmental factors, and strategic choices. Follow these steps to create your encounter:
  1. Determine the Objective: Decide on the objective or goal of the encounter. It could be defeating a group of enemies, solving a puzzle, or navigating a treacherous environment. Consider how the encounter fits into the overall narrative and what the players can gain or lose based on their success or failure.
  2. Establish the Environment: Choose a specific setting or location for the encounter. Consider how the environment can impact the encounter. Are there hazards, obstacles, or unique features that the players can interact with strategically? Ensure that the environment adds depth and provides opportunities for creative problem-solving.
  3. Populate the Encounter: Determine the opponents or creatures the players will face during the encounter. Consider their strengths, weaknesses, and unique abilities. Ensure that the difficulty level aligns with the capabilities of the player characters and the overall challenge you want to present.
  4. Include Dynamic Elements: Introduce dynamic elements to make the encounter more engaging and exciting. This can include timed events, changing environmental conditions, or unexpected reinforcements. Think about how these elements can affect the flow and strategy of the encounter.
  5. Design Tactical Options: Provide the players with tactical options and choices during the encounter. Consider different approaches or paths they can take to achieve the objective. Include interactive elements, such as objects they can interact with or strategic positions they can utilize.
  6. Test and Refine: Playtest the encounter to ensure it offers a balanced and enjoyable experience. Make adjustments as needed based on the feedback and observations from the playtest. Pay attention to the pacing, difficulty, and player engagement throughout the encounter.
By designing a dynamic encounter, you'll provide the players with a memorable and immersive experience. This encounter will challenge their abilities, promote strategic thinking, and encourage teamwork. It will also showcase your creativity as a Game Master and provide an exciting highlight within your one-shot session.
Week 4:
Nightly Homework (Week 4):
Create Engaging Puzzles and Challenges:
During Week 4, your nightly homework will revolve around designing puzzles and challenges that will engage and challenge the players in your one-shot session. These elements can add variety and intrigue to the gameplay, providing opportunities for problem-solving and critical thinking. Here's a breakdown of the nightly tasks:
By completing these nightly homework tasks, you'll have a collection of engaging puzzles and challenges ready to be integrated into your one-shot session. These elements will provide moments of mental stimulation and interaction for the players, fostering problem-solving skills and encouraging teamwork. They will add depth and variety to the gameplay, making the session more memorable and enjoyable for everyone involved.
Weekend Project (Week 4): Design a Unique Setting
For this weekend project, you'll design a unique and immersive setting that serves as a backdrop for your one-shot session. The setting should be intriguing, visually appealing, and offer opportunities for exploration and interaction. Follow these steps to create your setting:
  1. Determine the Theme: Decide on the theme or concept for your setting. It could be a haunted mansion, a mystical forest, a bustling city, or any other theme that fits your session's narrative. Consider the atmosphere, mood, and overall ambiance you want to convey.
  2. Establish Key Locations: Identify the key locations within the setting. These could be landmarks, important buildings, or distinct areas that the players will encounter during the session. Consider their relevance to the story and the unique features or elements that make them stand out.
  3. Develop the Environment: Describe the physical environment of your setting in detail. Consider the geography, climate, flora, and fauna. Think about how these elements impact the atmosphere and affect the characters' interactions within the setting.
  4. Populate the Setting: Populate the setting with NPCs, creatures, or other inhabitants. Determine their roles, motivations, and relationships within the setting. Consider how they interact with the players and how their presence enhances the overall atmosphere and narrative.
  5. Create Points of Interest: Create points of interest within the setting that provide opportunities for exploration, interaction, or discovery. These could be hidden treasures, ancient ruins, mysterious artifacts, or intriguing NPCs. Consider how these points of interest can engage the players and contribute to the session's narrative.
  6. Incorporate Lore and History: Develop the lore and history of the setting. Consider its backstory, legends, and notable events that have shaped the current state of affairs. This will add depth and richness to the setting, providing a sense of history and intrigue for the players.
  7. Visualize the Setting: Use visual aids, such as maps or artwork, to bring the setting to life. Create a visual representation of the key locations and important elements within the setting. This will help the players visualize the environment and immerse themselves in the game world.
By designing a unique and immersive setting, you'll provide a captivating backdrop for your one-shot session. The setting will contribute to the overall atmosphere and enhance the players' engagement and immersion. It will offer opportunities for exploration, interaction, and storytelling, making the session more memorable and enjoyable for everyone involved.
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2023.06.01 00:17 MDMitchell2 Another man mowing my lawn.

We just had our second kid and I’m back at work full-time. There is no time at the moment for me to mow the lawn. My wife is the best, and she hired a lawn mowing service. They do a great job and it’s actually pretty affordable, but I die a little bit inside every time I see them out there. It’s my lawn. I loved the “me time” of pushing the mower and sitting with my thoughts. I miss the feeling of pride of seeing the lawn well manicured and the satisfaction of nearly edging up the driveway. I can’t wait to get back out there and handle business… does anyone else feel this way about work around they house they’ve had to put on hold?
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2023.06.01 00:17 Thick-Awareness3293 Nintendo should make an Arkham Knight-esque, driving/action, beat em up, F-Zero game with Captain Falcon.

I've always loved captain falcon, he's always been my fav character to play in every single smash bros game. In the story of the game itself, I know captain falcon is a bounty hunter but we never really get to see any of that expanded upon because f-zero is primarily just a racing game. I'm aware that F-zero also had an old anime adaptation, but I feel like that doesn't really do it justice. I think it would be so cool if Nintendo made a beat em up type game, similar to Arkham knight or mad max, where you get to play as Captain Falcon as a bounty hunter, fighting guys but also driving and racing around in his Blue Falcon.
I just love the like built up lore Captain Falcon has gained over the years in the smash bros games. I know none of it's canon, but I feel like the game has been so dead for years, what would be the harm in adapting the story a bit to make his cool smash abilities canon (although captain falcon did do a falcon punch in the anime so maybe it is idk lol). He's just such a cool character and has these crazy powers and fighting abilities and IMO its a waste to just sit on something like that and not use it. Like c'mon, who wouldn't want to go around falcon punching and kicking as captain falcon in his own game it would be so fun.
Now I know this is beyond a stretch. At the end of the day, the name of the game is money and Nintendo is most likely gonna stick to their major titles like zelda, mario and pokemon. But we have been seeing recent older games make a resurgence, like the recent metroid prime remaster that did pretty well, so that gives me a sliver of hope.
(Pardon my cringe) I can picture it now. The day of the new Nintendo direct. We see Captain Falcon in a race. OMG its for a new F-Zero game, wow I can't believe they're making a new one! Everyone's going nuts. But then we see Captain Falcon hop out of the car. Wait he wasn't in a race, he was chasing some outlaw or bounty. And then we see him start to fight a bad guy and then he does a falcon punch. Like COME ONNN. I know that shit would be soooooo hype. People would go fucking crazy.
I just feel like Nintendo would make a fortune making a game like this; People love Captain Falcon and he has garnered such a fanbase over the years from a game that wasn't even his own. His Smash Bros, fighting game character-esque persona has arguably been received way better and given the character far more notoriety then his own game series.
I love the F-Zero games. Now, I'm not saying I want to completely get rid of the original games essence, I definitely would still want racing modes. I'm just saying that, Captain Falcon gained such popularity because of the smash games' interpretation of the character, that Nintendo would be crazy to just sit on a property like that. I just know Fans would go nuts for this game.
Now I know this is but a naïve pipe dream, but I just wanted to get my thoughts out there lol.
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2023.06.01 00:17 IStayForTheComments The Tampa-2 is a lie. Brett Kollmann

The Tampa-2 is a lie. Brett Kollmann
Take a look inside our defense.
Brett goes into dissecting what Tampa 2 is and near the end explains how much the Steelers run this formation compared to the league. He does a great job breaking down what exactly this coverage is and how it's been incorporated over the years. It also made me realize how important it is for us to have very athletic ILBs since we run this formation a lot. Tomlin worked in TB under the Tampa 2 mastermind Monte Kiffin and that is why we are in this formation a lot.
Also, call somebody you love today.
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2023.06.01 00:17 Twayneeded Nov 2021

I worked from home today because the kids' school was having a teacher work day. It was a decent day. When I am alone with the kids they don't really argue too much and even if they do I am there to help them. It seems like I have a better relationship with my kids and my children don't misbehave as badly when it is just me taking care of them. They really ratchet things up when their mother is home. Wife came home and she is nearing the end of her academic degree plan. Had to have an HVAC repairman come try and fix our heater. He shocked himself 3 times. Wife has had problems with her Dr office adding stress to her day meaning that she was in a bad mood and let me know it. She spent all afternoon in the bedroom while I dealt with the kids, cooked supper, did the dishes, washed clothes, and did the laundry. We took the kids for a short walk after supper without the dogs because it was already getting dark. I gave the kids baths and they went to bed on time. Wife stayed up late working on schoolwork and I went to sleep alone.
Woke up with ychild in bed. Wife was already up and griping about something. Getting gripped out 1st thing in the morning always starts off the day in a bad mood. Work was uneventful but productive. Got home and cleaned off the kitchen table (of course there wasn't a single square inch of available space on it for the past 1 1/2 weeks) none of the mess was mine it was all wifes/kids projects.I cleaned it so that she would have a space to make cookies with the kids like she promised. Trying to make her day a little easier knowing that had she gone in there with the table like that it would have been bad and also knowing that there were things on the table so I knew that I would get blamed for any misplaced objects. My prediction came through when she came into the kitchen and thanked me for cleaning the table but immediately started griping about missing items and how she had wished she had cleaned it to show she would know where they are. This always happens and is one of the main reasons I cannot declutter our house. It just leads to more gripping. If I clean or don't clean I'm gonna get bitched out. Wife had to head to town quickly to pick up an Rx so we went with her. I had not yet started supper so I put everything up so we could have it the next day and we all went into town together and ate supper in the van. She also got some negative comments on some of her schoolwork so she was in a bad mood x2 because of an incident with her dr's nurse. Wife stayed in the bedroom working on schoolwork while I got the kids dressed in their PJ's and put them to bed about 15 min late. I walked into the bedroom and she was searching for socks for the kids in the laundry hamper. When she was done I took the hamper into the living room and matched them all then put them up. I then played on my computer. Wife went into the kitchen at about 9:45. I went in there about 10 min later and asked her if there was anything I could do for her. She said no then asked me if I saw her come into the kitcher. I said yes and she started gripping that I should have come in there sooner to help her cause she was now almost done. She started complaining that the only time she gets to relax is when she is laying down on her phone in bed (nevermind the number of times i come into the bedroom to find her watching TV or on facebook on her computer.)
I was only on my computer for about 30 min. Its not like I spend all day doing nothing but she makes me feel like I do nothing at all. A common mantra in this house is the wife saying "I never get any help" and "I cannot keep this house clean by myself" when she literally hasn't done any cleaning since her parents visited last month and I still did most of the cleaning. The only time she cleans is when someone is coming over. Needless to say I am feeling very resentful and unloved. We haven't shown any affection to each other since a month ago. Some Days when things are decent (not good just not bad) I wonder if it's a mistake to be considering divorce but days like today are more common and remind me of why I want one. I couldn't sleep due to drinking some tea at supper so I got out of bed and sat on the couch until 1am.
Woke up this morning very tired and sleepy with ychild in bed with me. Wife was already in a mood and I was gripped out for "not listening" she then proceeding to account for 3-4 times recently that I have asked her a question that she had already told me an answer in a previous conversation. So once again I get to start the day in a bad mood. I feel compelled to kiss her and tell her I love her now or she will get upset. I did that then came back inside for something and she got upset when I didn't go back and give another hug/kiss. No way am I gonna do that while being bitched out so I just walked out the door. Great start to the day. Got the kids from school and came home. Cooked supper and took out the trash. Got the kids into bed but ychild talked herself into falling asleep in our bed. Wife said she would move her but of course didn't and ychild slept in our bed all night long.
Woke up with ychild in bed with me. kissed and told her i loved her before work. Had a decent day at work and left to pick up the kids. This was my last day picking the kids up from school and we stopped for ice cream on the way home. We were supposed to walk the dogs before I started supper. I told my wife this but she was on the phone with her mother about her job offer. 25 min later and it was getting close to supper time and she was still on the phone.I decided it was too close to supper to walk and then cook. Wife came out and I told her that. she got upset and we ended up having a small walk. I got back and cooked supper and we all ate at the kitchen table. Wife disappeared back into the bedroom to work on schoolwork. I put the kids to bed on time and then got on my computer. Wife started working on the kids lunches and I asked if there was anything i could do. She said no. Then the bedtime ritual started. This all happened within 20min. I came to bed and turned the lights out. When my wife came back she bitched at me cause she had left one of the lights on on purpose. Then she zinged me for not paying attention when she told me about her medication a few days ago. Then she complained that I had missed a bag of trash in the bedroom. Then she accidentally slammed the bathroom door and got mad when I asked if she did that on purpose. Then she cussed at me when she complained about the bed hurting her back and I suggested a sleep study. Despite all of this I really felt the need to try and cuddle with her. I rolled over and she immediately asked if she needed to turn off her phone. I told her no but she could if she wanted to, then she complained that this is the only time she gets to relax and then immediately jumped up cursing because she forgot to put the clothes from the washer into the dryer. I rolled over and put my mask on to fall asleep. I knew I would get hurt but I couldn't help myself. It took me a while to go to sleep because of the pain in my heart and the lack of love.
I worked from home today so i did not have to wake up as early. Wife woke up and got the kids ready. Wife had a full one sided conversation with ychild in our bed while i was trying to sleep. I feel like she was resentful for me being able to sleep in and her having to get up so she did it as a way to wake me up and keep me from being able to sleep. The kids yelled goodbye and the wife left without so much as a word or touch. I had a decent day at work. The HVAC repair man showed up early.I was going to go and pick up the kids at 11:00 but we decided to just get powerhouse(aftercare) at the school instead also for monday. I could have gone and picked up the kids but didn't because they were already scheduled and I thought we had already paid. Wife got mad at me for that. She was really late because it was her last day of DT and she had people say goodbye to her then went to pick up the kids. We decided to eat at the new seafood place then went and picked up groceries. We got home and put the groceries away and watched some shows on the couch. She got upset because I was on my phone (so was she) and said she watched more of the tv than I did. I tried to get the kids in bed but she overruled me because it was the weekend. The kids stayed up and eventually convinced her to go to bed with her. I slept alone but honestly I think I prefer that now.
Woke up alone. Had a decent day and went to Ychilds 1st birthday invite party. Wife made appointments for both kids to get the flu and covid vaccine. We had a great time at the party and socialized for the 1st time in a long time. We had to leave early to get to the pharmacy for the vaccines. When we got there the pharmacist told us we were scheduled for the flu only. It greatly upset the wife and she flew into a rage. Canceled both appointments. We got back to the car and she was yelling, screaming, and violently hitting her phone on the steering wheel. I told her to be an example to kids and she told me to "kiss her ass." She is angry the whole ride home. She started getting loud with me multiple times and I asked her not to talk to me like that. Apparently, asking her to speak to me politely instead of raising her voice at me is not giving her grace. Saying that I never give her grace when she talks nasty to me. saying that I do it all the time to her and she never says a word. I told her to speak up next time and she says she does and just gets bitched out. I am at my wits end. She is being very nasty to me and then puts the blame on me instead of realizing how she is treating me and accepting blame. A really nice day totally
ruined by her temper. We ended up having cereal for supper and going for custard afterwards. We stayed up late and the kids convinced my wife to go sleep with them.
Woke up by myself again. After wife got up we ended up going to the new donut store for breakfast and we stopped off at walmart on the way home. When we got home I noticed my radiator was leaking.I went to oriellys to buy some stop leak. We got back and I put on jumanji and then beethoven. Ochild really loved jumani. We were having a decent time. Today I did 4 loads of laundry, bathed the dog, cleaned the aquarium, cooked supper, and cleaned the guest bathroom. Of course wife got onto me when I did the kids laundry because i missed 1 shirt and 4 socks out of ychilds room. After supper we played a board game. Then the kids had a bath and I was chastised when I went in there to talk to the kids after my wife was yelling at them. I am not supposed to step in except when I am supposed to of course I have no idea when that is supposed to be. Kids went to bed a little late. I slept by myself.
Woke up by myself. Got up early even though I am working from home to help my wife with kids and take the dog to the vet. Wife started gripping about me not doing anything to help with the kids. I don't understand because she gets them ready at the last minute. That's usually when I am getting together also. She doesn't tell me or let me ask what she needs help with. Just grips after the fact. Dropped the dog off and returned to work. Picked the dog back up and returned to work again. Wife got home late due to her new job onboarding and flu vaccine. We had mcdonalds for supper and the kids went to bed really late. ychild spent the evening with wife because she wasn't feeling well. Since both the kids were up past their bedtime wife went to sleep with them.
Woke up early because I am still stuck on the old schedule. Wife came in and got herself ready for her 1st day. I got up, helped with the kids and got the dogs ready (surgery) then went to work. work was ok. Came home and cooked supper. The evening was uneventful.
Ychild got sick so I worked from home. We were both asleep when wife came into the room. She then had a loud conversation/argument with ochild in the room. waking up ychild and me. If I were to wake them up when they were sleeping in I would get bitched up one side and down the other. Seems like she does it all the time. Took Ychild to the dr and she was covid negative thankfully. Wife came home and the day went ok. She was tired so we watched netflix. I cooked supper and did the dishes. We got the kids in bed a little late. Wife went to bed a little early. I went into the bathroom to get some medicine shortly after. Wife was visibly upset when I came in. I really don't understand why and she wouldn't tell me. Eventually she said that she didn't expect me there. It made me feel really hurt. I felt like she not only didn't want me there but actually got mad that I showed my face. Maybe she thought I was going to lay down with her
but if that was so it would be no reason to get mad, I know she plays on her phone in bed and that's her relaxation time. Either way it was totally uncalled for and if that's how she is going to make me feel I don't see a point in staying together. storm came rolling in and ychild woke up so she had to go sleep with them.
Holiday today so I stayed home. I could hear the wife yelling at the kids trying to get ready. So I got up to help.
Skipped some days because nothing happened. Nothing good or bad. At bedtime my wife was getting lunch ready. She has been a little stressed lately due to her computer HD failing and EDTPA coming back for revisions. Her professor didn't come to her appointment to help. I helped make the kids lunches. The kids' clothes were still sitting in the chair (apparently it's my job.) I offered to help get the kids clothes together. She very sarcastically said she would welcome the help if I could turn on a light so she could see. I know it doesn't sound bad on paper but she was very hateful and hurtful. When I asked her not to talk to me like that she responded that she didn't need a lecture right now. I just want to be spoken to with respect and love not hate and vitriol.
Not journaling everyday because things aren't as bad everyday. Yesterday I did the laundry for the entire house. This morning I got up. my wife had already left for the grocery store to pick up groceries. I got up with Ychild. She got home and we unloaded the groceries. I relaxed in the living room. and she started cleaning the kitchen. I always hate days like this because anytime she cleans I get to hear her bitch and moan and the state of things. I am the only one to clean the house/kitchen for the last 6 months, actually even longer,for as long as she has been in college or working. It is not messy, it's just not up to her standards. Plus most of the mess is hers. She does projects and things but doesn't clean up afterward. When I get in to clean, if I move things around or put up her things I get yelled at. It feels like a handicap because the only one that can truly clean is her and when she doesn clean I feel like crap because she spends the whole time
mouthing and bitching about me because it isn't clean enough to suit her. And if I try to go in and help or clean another part of the house I get bitched at again because "i'm only cleaning because she is upset" she doesn't seem to notice the hours of cleaning I do when she is not around or is concentrating on other things.
We left on the 23rd (my birthday) to go down to Carthage for the weekend. The holiday went well with minimal fussing. Friday the 26 came and my wife surprised me with a weekend getaway sans kids. her family pissed her off right when we left. we get to our BnD and then leave to do some shopping. We went way too long, ate supper,and drove to longview. She had thought that we would just spend the weekend together. I wanted to get physical. I take her to a sex shop and she gets embarrased and refuses to look at anything or consider any toys. Our sexlife is laughable and practically non-existant. You would figure if someone was trying to save their marriage they would at least attempt to spice things up. I got upset and we went back to our cabin. I am tired and we just go to sleep. Wife makes us take a bath in the morning. We wash each other, then when we get out she changes into a negligee. She tells me I am not allowed to do any oral on her and that it will be the last time I see her in a G string. Totally sexy right? I had put some nice smelling lotion on my privates and she made a comment about how that would taste ( thinking I might get some oral) but instead she just led me to the bed and got on top. She has sex with me and I find it difficult to finish becuase she is clearly not enjoying it and refused to do any foreplay. We leave for the day and walk around Jefferson. Get back and start drinking wine and painting. She gets drunk enough to make a move and changes into another negligee. I feel like I almost forced her to let me eat her out after I gave her oral. She says I am not allowed to kiss her. we eventually start having some decent sex but she cannot stand much of the physical aspect and eventually it just shift to the standard missionary. I cannot finish and she gets up. I tell her i'll finish myself off if she will help. She starts cleaning and doesn't care when I get upset. We eventually have a small heart to heart where she tells me she is resentful
for the way my parents treated her and I was very pacifist instead of confrontational with my parents. She tells me she watches squirting videos and masturbates in the bath (lied to me when she says she doesnt masterbate.) She clearly has very strong issues with sexual intimacy and refused to do anything I wanted. She thought it was a successful weekend and I'm thinking it just shows how far apart we are and how little in common we have. multiple times just both of us on our phones because we have nothing to talk about. We go back and pick up the kids and it takes forever to get home. When we do I find the dog with something sticking out of her chest.
I am trying to work on her when my daughter comes out there and the dog jumps up and runs to her. She starts freaking out and i try and get ychild to come to me, unfortunately i did yell because i was scared of her getting stabbed by the dog. Of course she freezes up screaming as the dog is trying to get to her. I end up having to go to her and pick her up. As I am trying to take her to the garage I fall and bust my knee. This starts a big fight because I am now hurt, angry, and yelling while also trying to find out what's wrong with the dog. Eventually I discovered that the dog had forced herself inside the metal loop of a small childs butterfly net. I end up cutting it off her with some wire cutters. My knee is now busted and my wife and I have been fighting because she feels like when I am angry and hurt is the best time to keep getting in my face and talking shit about me. Just makes me want to seek a divorce all the more. She thinks this weekend was a success and all I can see is the end. I was angry when I went back out to her van and hit the open door button too hard and dented it. No real excuse but I wish she didn't pile on my problems by yelling at me in front of the kids while I'm trying to discipline them. I wasn't abusing them or being physical in any way but my wife will not allow for any dissent from the way she wants to raise the kids. I feel like I am not a father. I am allowed no say in raising them. The kids can just yell/scream/cry and my wife will come to the rescue, preventing me from actually doing any good or teaching them to understand right/wrong. It's her way or the highway.
Dec 2021
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2023.06.01 00:17 lexj432hz Should the Uber driver be responsible to call the customer when a restaurant is missing items?

It’s happened a few times to me where I get to a restaurant to pick up an order and they tell me “Oh yeah, so we’re out of stock of (whatever item the customer ordered). Can you call them and ask if they would like a different item?”
What do you guys think? I thought to myself today that the restaurant is the one who doesn’t have the item, they made the mistake, not me, so shouldn’t they have called the customer? Why wait for me to get there and then I’m the one who has to call? Am I wrong about this? My job is to pick up the food and leave, not make calls because of a mistake made by the restaurant.
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2023.06.01 00:17 Personwas_taken Tail casually detached

I was trying to return to base after a photograph and bombing mission. I was being swarmed and my tail gunner wasn’t doing so well. My engineer was constantly out on the wing of my B-17, repairing engines. My planes was hosed up and I didn’t know how much more I could take. After repairing an engine, my tail gave away after two BF109’s dived at me and blew my tail clean off. I was flying straight, but my tail gunner kind of just died and one tail gunner was too close and flew out. I proceeded to fly without a tail and my crew was operating as usual, minus the two gunners. However, I was falling/gliding down slowly to the ground, but I couldn’t tell if it was the pilot descending, or the plane losing control since I previously was going from medium altitude to lower altitude since the clouds was messing with my navigator. I crashed, but I surprisingly recovered all but one crew member. You did well, Hukkins. You did well (that was my tail gunner.)
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2023.06.01 00:17 Aggressive_Grape854 Best friends girl friend met up with an ex.

Hey, so about a week ago I learned that my best friends gf met up with her ex for ice cream and she she didn’t tell my friend her bf.
When my friend and her started dating she was still friends with her ex as they had been friends for a while after their breakup, but my friend wasn’t comfortable and thought it was odd with how close they still were, he communicated those feeling with her and she stopped hanging out with her ex.
That was a few months ago now, I know her ex as we go to the same gym and we are friendly, the other day he told me that him (ex) and her had gone out for ice cream a week ago and during that he asked her if her bf (my friend) knew about it she said he has no idea.
Now I don’t know if she has told my friend (her bf) by now or not but I know if I was in his shoes I’d want to know about it.
Any advice on how I should talk to her about it first or if I should just go straight to my friend. Feel like I should give her the opportunity to explain it, because this doesn’t seem like her at all.
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2023.06.01 00:17 ManWhoRidesTheMoon The D in Prague, Band merch

What's up fellow D-ciples!
Me and my wife are comming to Prague for the weekend to see the city and to attend the D concert. I was wondering if any of you have attended the current tour and maybe have seen how the band merch store is supplied. I am wondering about how early we should get to the hall to get the tour t-shirt without any worries. Also, any Forum Carlin atendies here? How does the concerts look there? My wife is in at the end of 3rd trimester of pregnancy and I want her to be as comfortable as possible. Is there any place to sit down for a bit? Any shops or vending machines to buy water?
To all the people attending this Sunday: can't wait to rock with you all!
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2023.06.01 00:16 mk136 Insurance Companies denying me/ giving me high rates for not-at-fault accidents

My insurance company dropped me because I had multiple claims in the past 2 years. Those claims were:
  1. Hydroplaning on the interstate during a severe rainstorm (I live in Florida) my car was just scratched and dented at the back
  2. I was a victim of a hit and run. Someone ran into my car severely damaging the back and front end (they pushed it into a fence when they hit it) in the middle of the night at my apartment complex. Insurance claim was filed and I have a police report about it. The police never found the driver at fault.
  3. Hurricane Ian hit last October and totaled my car by flooding the entire thing.
My insurance company (State Farm) paid for that and then told me they have to drop me because of too many claims. Now I am calling around and being denied by most insurance companies and the 2 that will offer me insurance have insanely high deductibles- a 300% increase from what I was paying.
Any advice on what I can/ should do would be greatly appreciated!! TIA!!
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2023.06.01 00:16 iiDatBoi Question regarding my acess to the lilith's commander dlc.

So, i play borderlands 2 using family share on steam, and all the DLCs works, however fight for sanctuary dlc doesn't work for me, the guy that shares the game with me does own it and says he got it when it was free, when i go to steam properties DLCs the DLC doesn't even shows up though.
Could i get acess to this DLC?
Please help.
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2023.06.01 00:16 Preston108 Daniel Park has two fathers?! (Clickbait...kinda)

Daniel Park has two fathers?! (Clickbait...kinda)
Okay I know the title of this post is questionable but stick with me. So I was about to fall asleep the other night when this theory came into my mind and I figured it would be worth sharing.
So this theory is mostly about the two bodies but the theory is that when Daniel swaps bodies, it isn't just his conscious that moves over, it's also some of the traits. When Daniel returns to his original body, each time the two bodies start to become more and more similar. This is how Daniel's original body looks so much like his second one and could explain how he picked up things like the copy ability, heat mode, and UI in his original body.
Furthermore that would mean Jinyeong is the creator or at least base of the second body (which yeah that was pretty obvious) and that's why Daniel looks so much like him.
So technically Daniel has two dads his original father and the father of his second body, Jinyeong.
Now for the really crazy theory that probably isn't true.
People often suggested back in the day that James Lee had two bodies and while it isn't much of a theory now, I feel like this possible theory could bring that back.
So the theory is that James is similar to Daniel as in when he was a young kid he was fat and overall a loser, and just when he was about to give up he woke up and had a second body.
The second body was gifted and talented in every single subject and made him powerful, it made him undefeatable. That is until he met a man, Elite, who threatened to take away his second body if James didn't help him out with killing Gapryong, destroying the first generation, and forming the second generation. So James did and after all that, his original body became a perfect copy of his second one, so he no longer need the second one. But now Charles was blackmailing him with the murder of Gapryong.
I'm not too sure about the James one but I hope this was a fun read. Let me know if you guys liked this one or if you didn't then feel free to clown on me as much as you want.
Alright I'll see you guys later.
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2023.06.01 00:16 traintableheadrest Binding on holiday advice please!

Hi, Im going on holiday with my boyfriend this summer and I need some help. For context i wear a binder any time im around him, (and anyone else for that matter) including sex. i know this is not the healthiest but my dysphoria is too strong for me to not have a literal breakdown if i cant bind. Holiday means we’ll be sharing a bed which means i cant take my binder off at night but i know this is seriously dangerous and wearing a binder for 3 days without breaks even at night is an awful idea that could permanently damage to my ribs. However im really, really not comfortable not having any sort of chest flattening when im around people, especially people i care about so just not binding isn’t an option either. Im a DD cup, so yes, it is very evident when i dont bind and i’ve tried transtape but it doesn’t work for larger chests like mine. does anyone have any advice on what i can do?? i really dont want this to ruin our holiday but i am not able to just not bind and binding for 40h straight is too dangerous. Its the south of france in the summer so layering up at night isn’t possible either. I am eternally grateful for any advice!!!
P.S.this isn’t about me being worried my boyfriend will be weirded out or not accepting, he is incredibly supportive. but i personally dont feel able to not bind around people i care about.
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