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2016.02.28 16:54 MrSkills92 Ariana Grande's Ass

For fans of Ariana Grande's ass.
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2014.12.16 17:01 Tnargkiller Beggars can't be choosers!

This subreddit is for posting screenshots, pictures, or stories of people who are being way too picky when begging for things.
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2012.10.30 03:46 FarSizzle Make New Friends Here

This subreddit is for those who are looking to make some new friends on Reddit.
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2023.03.24 06:31 c0mplicateed 25F [friendship] Just a Boring Girl, bad with introductions and terrible at writing catchy titles.

I really enjoy meet new knew people. I like all kinds of music: kpop, indie, rock, some metal, R&B, etc. I'm kinda a fangirl
I like anime and my current obsession is Jujutsu kaisen and BNH.
I like sci-fi movies but now I don't have enough time to watch movies. However, most of the times I end up rewatching Disney movies, romcoms or Horror movie
I enjoy listening to podcasts or watching Ted talks at morning...
I like animals, and now I got a 🐰 her name is Luna
I enjoy reading books in my spare time, No matter the genre
I'd like to talk on Snapchat or Reddit chat, but I'm not interested in nsfw content sharing and please be over 23!
Maybe now it's too late, and I can't answer you today but tomorrow I will!. Btw, my time zone is (UTC-6), So please introduce you or tell me about your day or recommend me a playlist (I think is a better way to start a conversation)
Have a nice day if you read all of this horrible text haha
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2023.03.24 04:34 wackyhorrorwriter14 Evil Waze

I was alone in my bedroom when I first started talking to Lili Hope. My parents were out of town and I was stuck at the house on a dark and stormy night. It was another lonely weekend for me considering I had no friends in college, let alone a girlfriend. I had long started regretting the decision to stay home in Americus and attend Georgia Southwestern but tonight really emphasized my alienation. Here I was in the middle of nowhere in a house surrounded by roaming woods and dirt roads. And to top all this misery off, I was only twenty so I couldn’t buy alcohol.
But still there was Lili. In my room, I ignored the steady rain overpowering my classic rock YouTube playlist. I could ignore the February cold and it was all because of her.
I’d met Lili on MeetMe, a really shitty free dating app. But she stood out. Not just because she wasn’t a spambot either. For one thing, she was close. Buena Vista (that's BEW-NUH VISS-TUH), Georgia was only thirty minutes away and it was a town I was familiar with given how much my parents and I enjoyed visiting Eddie Martin’s Pasaquan art exhibit.
I could tell Lili enjoyed talking to me for more than just compliments and sexting (though I certainly wasn’t complaining about that). We discussed horror movies, The Beatles, and how we were made for each other given we were both pale Hispanic emos. She was my age but had dropped out of Georgia Southwestern after her first semester because she had no money or support from her shithead father. Now Lili was working at a gas station in Buena Vista, but her dreams of being an actress or a model persisted. She certainly had the looks no matter what hair color she ran with. And unlike most of the girls I encountered on MeetMe, Lili never used make-up or excessive SnapChat filters to disguise her acne or slight belly. She stayed true to herself.
After that magical night, she and I talked more over the next few weeks. There were phone calls, Facebook chats, text messages. Even FaceTime calls in which Lili thrilled me when she said I was even cuter on video. I could’ve said the same about her. Call it an emo romance, but to me, what we had was true love.
Through our talks, I did find out more about Lili's family. Her mom had died when Lili was only eight so she became very close to her dad. She showed me many of her old family photos but I was a little confused when I never saw one of her mom. Lili’s dad on the other hand looked old even though he was only in his mid-forties. He was a shorter man with dark long hair and a dark long beard. About the only thing he and Lili seemed to have in common were their big brown eyes.
I felt like Lili had rescued me during all those lonely school days and even lonelier weekends. I liked to think I saved her from the customer service depression as well. And then finally, the dream happened: we made plans to meet in person.
Spring Break arrived, and per usual, I had no plans. Lili gave me her address and on a quiet Monday while my parents were out of town, I got ready to head over to Buena Vista. I threw on my coolest band tee (my Ramones shirt), my nicest pair of jeans, and even had my straight dark hair perfectly combed over to the side. I felt the adrenaline of a prom night I never got to experience.
In the kitchen, I stopped to see a violent storm outside the sliding glass doors. Cold air had already seeped into the house. I threw on a yellow windbreaker to both stay warm and to prepare for the barrage of rain that was about to hit me like bullets.
But before I left, I needed something to calm my nerves: I grabbed one of my dad’s Miller Lites. But I needed music too. I looked toward our Amazon Echo standing by the Keurig, trying to decide on the perfect theme song for Lili and I's first date.
"Alexa, play 'Born To Run'!" I finally said.
"Okay," Alexa's calm, robotic voice replied.
Springsteen's classic roared over the downpour. The beer also did the trick even though I cringed with every sip. I had enough of a buzz to calm the jitters but not enough to get me a DUI. "Thank you, Alexa!" I said to that sweet machine.
"No problem," she stated. "No problem at all, Demian.”
In the Corolla, I turned on the heat before accessing the Waze app on my phone. I plugged in Lili's address then pulled out of the driveway. The app started to talk to me off my phone… only this wasn't the bland monotone Waze usually greeted me with. This was my voice.
Thanks to the beer buzz, I just chuckled at first. Especially once I heard myself giving the directions, the fusion of my deep voice and Alexa's deliberate tone amusing me. I put on a Spotify classic rock station to further calm the nerves.
The decreasing mile marker signs leading to Buena Vista excited me like a New Year's countdown. And soon, the route got more and more secluded. The highway got bumpier, the houses less frequent. Darkness soon blanketed whatever daylight I had left… even though it wasn’t even five o’clock yet.
Unease crept inside me as the ferocious storm never went away. Even over the music and my own methodical Waze voice, I could hear and feel the thunder. My windshield wipers worked overtime. I felt my tires spray water everywhere on this ocean of rugged pavement. Rather than a fearsome sight, the lightning actually became a helpful co-pilot for my Corolla's weak headlights.
The spiraling drive took me past Buena Vista's downtown ‘square,’ a conglomeration of decrepit historical buildings, the rundown gas station I figured Lili had slaved away at, and a seedy Subway.
"Turn left on Tenney Road," Waze Demian stated in a voice smoother than I could ever conjure in the real world.
I followed orders and turned on to the dirt road. The fact my Corolla didn't get bogged down shocked me. Rather than water, my tires now kicked up slushy mud. Lili had said she lived in the country, but this was something else: this was a fucking forest.
Needless to say, the headlights didn't help much. Leaning forward, I strained to see through the darkness and buckets of rain. The raindrops now drowned out all other noise. Up ahead, all I could make out was the faint trace of a driveway and a metal mailbox painted in harsh shades of red.
"What the hell..." I muttered.
"Your destination is on the left," Waze Demian said, his monotone struggling to contain excitement.
My unease only grew but I had to see Lili. I'd already come this far.
"Your destination is on the left," Waze Demian repeated for emphasis.
The closer I got to the mailbox, the more my fear intensified. I actually started to sweat on this dark, cold night.
"Your destination is on the left," my Waze voice continued to chant.
As I pulled into the driveway, the radio and headlights all cut out in a flash. My car came to a sudden stop. Darkness dominated the scene as I saw nothing and heard nothing except the merciless app.
"Your destination is on the left," Waze Demian repeated.
Panicking, I flicked on the headlights but nothing worked. I was trapped. "Fuck!"
Lightning flashed to give me a terrifying sneak peek of Lili's ‘home’:
Less than fifteen feet away from me stood three people dressed in red robes. Their hoods were pulled up and behind them lurked an isolated tree.
"Your destination is on the left," Waze Demian said.
Without warning, my headlights and radio roared to life. Only instead of classic rock, I got greeted by loud, distorted audio resembling the sound of a looped tape being grated by a machine.
"Your destination is on the left," I could hear Waze Demian say over such a horrifying sound.
I screamed when I saw through headlights that were way brighter, the chilling scene before me. I recognized Lili standing in the red cloak and her father right next to her. Both of them displayed painted smiles on those pale faces.
Ropes and chains were wrapped around the old tree. The tree tilted to the side, its long branches without leaves extending out like restless hands clamoring for me. I could even make out weird symbols carved into the tree's flesh, the engravings so deep they practically made the bark bleed.
I never got a good glimpse of the third person. They kept their cloak hood pulled over their face, every inch of their body disguised in red.
"Fuck this..." my quivering voice said in an antithesis to the calm cadence of Waze Demian.
Beneath the hard rain, Lili marched straight toward me to the tune of the unsettling noise from the radio, her steps slow and steady. Her confident eyes glued to me. I saw where Lili's smile was sharper than the long curved knife she held.
"Your destination is on the left," my Waze voice stated.
Lightning flashed as Lili raised the blade. Her red hair oozed out beneath the hood to blend into the cloak. Raindrops slid down her face. She was now less than ten feet away and only getting closer.
"Shit!" I cried. With a trembling hand, I put the car in reverse. The tires scrunched up dirt as I backed out on to Tenney Road in a reckless flourish.
Turning, I saw Lili reach for the passenger side's door handle. Goddamn, she was fast! And even through the darkness, I could see her gaze and feel it pierce straight into my soul.
"Your destination is on the left," my own voice seemed to taunt me.
Right when Lili grabbed the handle, I mashed the gas pedal and sped off into the night. Far from whatever Lili and her dad had in store for me.
I stole one glance at the rearview mirror to see Lili standing there in the middle of the road. The knife was now dangled by her side, her eyes still stuck on me.
"Your destination is on the-," Waze Demian started before I turned off the fucking app. I killed the radio to quash that fucking static. Now all I heard was soothing silence save for the steady raindrops.
Despite the lingering fear, I guided my Corolla all the way back to Americus. I called 911 and told the police everything and they said they'd send a car out to the address, but according to them, no one had lived on Tenney Road for years.
Back home, I staggered back into the kitchen. I was beyond sober and still scared. I grabbed another beer. Maybe getting a buzz would help me overcome the fear.
Thunder erupted outside. Startled, I looked toward the sliding glass doors but saw nothing but the black night. I let out an exasperated breath and took another swig before shifting my gaze to the Echo.
"Alexa, play 'Ninety-Six Tears'," I said.
The Echo light cut on. But instead of ? And The Mysterians's keyboards, I got my own chilling, calm voice:
"Your destination is on the right," Waze Demian stated.
I stumbled back against a wall. I was too frightened to scream.
"Your destination is on the right," Waze Demian repeated, louder this time so that my robotic voice echoed through the house.
I looked at the glass doors just as lightning flashed to form a perfect spotlight for the terrifying sight on our back porch.
Lurking behind the doors were the three robed figures: Lili, her dad, and the third person who I now saw was a middle-aged woman. Thanks to a beam emanating from a cell phone she held with the Waze app on, I could see the woman's entrancing eyes, flowing long hair, and wicked smile. I knew she had to be Lili's mom… Lili certainly took after her.
An agonizing screech sent chills down my spine.
Lili was sliding the curved blade all down the door for a long tease. One she carried out with a beaming grin on her face.
"Your destination is inside," Waze Demian stated.
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2023.03.24 03:22 Inner_Negotiation383 the year that really changed my life: 2022

So, 2022 was probably a great year for everyone. But it wasn't for me. It was life changing.
January 16, 2022 our family dog that we've had since I was in middle school (I was 26 at the time) had to be put down bc he couldn't make it any longer. And at that time my grandma was in the hospital with health issues so my dad was up in ohio; which left my mom to go by herself to have him put down. I video chatted him first, but I don't think I ever did, or ever will truly forgive myself for being in ohio, and at work when it happened.
March 8, 2022. My moms stepdad (pretty much her dad) passed away around 1:30am. Now I wasn't that close to him but still it hurt. And whether or not people think im crazy, I believe he came to say goodbye to me. I was up until about 1:30-2:00am and up at 5:30am when I got the text from my mom telling me. And that one still hasn't really hit me; but also I don't really allow myself to grieve. I absolutely hate showing any emotion, I feel like for me at least it's a sign of weakness.
Well around that same time my dad's dad had to have surgery on his leg, a week after being home from that he was sent back to the hospital and they released him 3 days later. He claims they said he had pneumonia but they gave him no meds for that. And two weeks later he was back in the hospital which brings us to the worst day I've ever experienced.
April 25, 2022. My grandpa, passed away. Turns out he had stage 4 lung cancer and the hospital missed it. That was the darkest day of my life. He passed around 6am.
Now I owe everything to my dad's dad. He practically raised me for the first like 5 or 10 years of my life. I was his side kick when he was younger. And around December 2021 I moved in with him (I know being grown living with your grandparents isn't something to brag about) and I was talking to one of my coworkers who really was my rock during that time about it, and he said that I was meant to move in there.
Well the end of April till maybe August was a really dark time in my life. Bc my grandpa's death really tore the family apart. My "uncle" (I say it with quotations bc he's nothing to me anymore) really came after me. He hated my job, wanted me to find one making less money and bc I didn't drive at the time suggested I walk across town (they live in a bad town) no matter the time I got off. I was still living with my grandma and didn't talk to her for a month bc everytime my uncle called her and I ended up fighting. And it was so bad that my uncle was going to fly from Virginia (where he lives) to Florida (where my parents and i currently live) and was going to fight my dad over me being in this house. So I moved out about mid August leaving my grandma alone in the house and making things harder on my aunt (my grandma isn't in the best of health and doesn't need to be by herself). But it was like everything was my fault, the utility bill high, my fault, something broke in the house, it was my fault, anything and everything was my fault to him. So I left, I didn't have a choice. If I would've stayed living here my uncle would've thrown me out on the street with my dog. Things only got better with me and my grandma when I blocked my uncle on everything I knew I had him on, Facebook, snapchat, his phone number. I didn't block him on xbox bc I don't remember his name on there. Everyone even fought over my grandpa's truck the day after the funeral. My dad claims him and my grandpa talked about it going to my sister, and my uncle claims they talked about him buying it. But now my dad says if he really wanted to he could've gotten the cops involved bc my moms name was also on the title to the truck, and when my dad sold it she never signed. He says my grandpa did that on purpose so if anything happened it'd go back to my parents.
I left behind all my friends, most of my family, had to quit my job that I absolutely loved. But I guess it worked out for me, bc I ended up finally getting my license, I just bought my first car, and I got a way better job down there. But I don't find joy in anything anymore. Everyone was excited and proud of me for buying a car, but me? I didn't feel anything. I work at school now and while it's nice and probably the best job I've ever held I wasn't proud of getting it. I felt like I had too.
My dad says his brother is the cause of me getting my license and I should credit him, but I don't. My grandpa had he still been around to see probably would've been the only person in my family to believe I wouldve gotten it. My dad told me I wouldn't the day of my test, and my grandma STILL tells me she never thought I would've gotten it. And the only thing keeping me going is the fact that my grandpa would be proud of where I'm at in life.
I honestly felt for a while like ending it all would stop this from happening, but it wouldn't. And I know it wouldn't, it would just remove me from the equation.
My uncle is still a piece of shit though. He still calls my grandma and tells her what she is and isn't allowed to do in her house. He just doesn't have anyone to blame anything on now.
Will I ever fully forgive my uncle for the way he acted? I doubt it. I want nothing to do with him anymore. It was so bad that i told my coworker (the one mentioned above) that the day my uncle passes i will drive to Virginia just to piss on his grave. I finally told my grandma about everything he said and done while I was here and she even said she was done with him. That wasn't my intention, though. I guess I'm just on a healing journey and need to get stuff off my chest.
I'm sorry this is so all over the place. 2022 sucked for me. And we're half way through 2023 and I just hope it gets better, I need it to. I have to continue moving forward in life to make my grandpa happy. It's what he wouldve wanted.
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2023.03.24 01:14 Pjrowe27 Vent Creatively

I teach middle-school ELA. Once a week, I give writing prompts as a warm up. A recent one was to write a 20-line rhyming poem about something that annoys you. I was inspired myself, and this is what I came up with. Please entertain me with your own.

These kids don’t do their work; they just watch YouTube to see people twerk.
Snapchat and Instagram and the need to watch TikTok, but in the classroom, they just run out the clock.
It grinds my gears to see them waste these adolescent years.
So much learning that could be done, but all they’re interested in is having fun.
Social media and games and all these distractions, and we’re expected to teach them grammar and fractions.
But knowledge doesn’t matter to this generation, not with smart phones and Google and AI creation.
Then they’re all guilty of procrastination; is indifference and apathy the future of our nation?
They lie and they cheat and make up excuses, for all of their technological misuses.
And so all these kids show up unprepared; no paper, no pencil, it’s like they never cared.
I know everyone learns at their own pace, but I just see young kids staring off into space.
That wouldn’t be so bad because quiet is nice, but peace by itself does not suffice.
We’re supposed to teach them using standards and rigor, but the slightest distraction gets them all triggered.
A kid has to sneeze, which I can get used to, but then fifteen friends scream out “GOD BLESS YOU!”
Every one of them wants constant attention; I just want them to show me some comprehension.
And don’t start me talking about the dress “code;” the garb these kids wear makes me want to explode.
Ripped jeans and low pants and summertime hoodies, they’ll cover their faces but never their . . . knees.
$300 Jordans with no creases, so they’ll kick them off and play in socks out at recess.
Crocs and pajamas, that’s not classroom attire; straight slacks and collars is what I desire.
All these raggedy clothes, there’s no self respect; and heaven forbid they wear IDs ‘round their neck.
Thanks for your time, I just had to vent. Here’s hoping these problems will soon relent.
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2023.03.24 00:30 Brightfuture7 I said horrible things..

Hello all, A little about us we have been married for almost 3 years and we have 2 kids together. Last year I found out she was sending nudes and talking to people in which one of them was from the same race as I am. We used to live in her family house till I found out and decided to move out knowing myself I will not forgive her. I confronted her and she kept laying till I show her prove.
She helped me moving in and I let her and the kids stay which became permeant till we argue or have trust issue and kept going on like that. Few months later I filed for a divorce but never really proceed with the case since she is living with me. This past weekend she was staying at her sister house and I am working as usual out of town. They came back 2 days ago and we didn't really had a chance to talk about an apartment she is getting with help from the government not to mention I have covid and been pretty sick.
I woke up on them getting ready to leave to school and I wanted to talk to her about the apartment since I don't think it is a safe option for her or the kids and I am willing to pay half the rent somewhere else. Reason of her moving is I live in a 1 bedroom apartment and we always argue, my apartment always isn't clean and organized which I literally take care of before I go to work just so she doesn't have to deal with it when I she gets home.
I logged into my old snapchat last night and got a notification she screenshot something from our conversation and in these conversation some pictures of her she sent me long time ago. I asked her about the screenshot and I get an immediate respond (I don't trust you) even though she is okay with me to see someone and have tinder which I download but never really have time or energy for such kind thing.
I told her immediately she isn't allowed in my apartment anymore and went to look into her phone that's when she demanded her phone and things escalated I throw it away and asked her to leave. I called her few hours later to get some info for the divorce after she ignored my text 2 hours ago and she was at the store I said which store, she started to say I am not telling and almost laughing about that's when I felt I was on speaker and made fun off. I called her cheaters and names I couldn't stop myself. I went crazy after I hang up she is totally disrespecting me so I texted and said things I never thought in my life I'd say to anyone. I am very unhappy, I have issues and I was trying to have my kids have a better place than her mom house till my lease is over and move to a bigger place.
How can I move on on something like this? She was trying to meet someone though Craigslist how do I ever go over something this big? how am I suppose to work something out with a person like this? I always apologize to her no matter what happened but this time I am not so sure, should I? I am thinking to move out the city since it's a small town and find me a job but how do I get over my feelings?
I am a very good person and I love to smile and be happy but I have not feeling happy lately, I don't have any family members in this country and very few friends. I'm self-employed so I am alone all the time and cant really share this with my close friends.
I am not sure about my feelings at the moment but I know one thing she clearly doesn't respect me or our marriage lead to this. It just hurts to pay the bills and draw a future for someone who did all this.
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2023.03.23 23:42 RyluminYamata 34[M4F] Florida/Caribbean/Online - First vacation in years. Let’s go to Epcot or anywhere Disney!

I’m a simple guy. I work, pay bills, run errands, and enjoy my hobbies. Growing up, life was always envisioned as becoming highly educated, married, a nice house, children - the whole white picket fence story.
Life never goes the way one might think, especially when you grew up trying to please everyone but yourself. The past few years, I’ve worked on myself - lost 70lbs, cooking for myself, learning to say no, and indulging in the little things in life that brings me joy.
I believe I’m finally in a place where I’m happy with the way things are, except for one thing. I’ve always put romance on the back burner. While I know I have a lot of love to give, I lacked confidence and was always insecure about my weight. I’m down to 155lbs from 225lbs (thanks Keto!) and it feels amazing to not be uncomfortable in my own skin. I’m still aiming to lose 10lbs more before my trip to Disney Springs (there won’t be any dieting on vacation). It may sound like a low weight for a guy, but I’m not all that tall at 5’6”.
I come from a close-knit family, and my friends are basically my second family. This is a part of the Caribbean lifestyle. Yes, I live in the Caribbean. Location doesn’t matter when getting to know one another, and LDR isn’t a problem, but if things progress then living apart isn’t something I want. Of course there’s no rush, and I don’t expect either of us to pick up our lives and move without a proper meeting(s) and seeing how well we mesh in person. As I will be in Florida on vacation, it would be great to get some dating experience if the opportunity arises. I’ve been out of the dating scene for over 10 years and have no clue what I should be doing. Maybe dinner and a movie? Exploring Disney? Maybe that’s all too old-fashioned? I’m open to suggestions!
In terms of communication, I would like to stick to messages at first before voice chatting. I am an introvert and social anxiety bares it’s head every now and then, but I’ve also worked on both of those things during my weight loss journey. We can message on Reddit at first then move to Discord if it’s more convenient as it’s my main messaging app. I’m not big on social media, so no Snapchat or Instagram, but that’s my personal preference as I’m a fairly private person.
As I’ve mentioned Discord, I will say now that I’m a nerdy guy. Video games, Marvel, DC, Anime, Technology, etc. are all interests of mine. While I would love to have someone who shares interest in all of these things, it’s definitely not required. I consider myself well-versed in many subject matters, and my personality allows me to fit into various social groups. I can separate my hobbies from life in general. Of course, if you’re into any of these things, it would be awesome, but again, it’s not required.
I also enjoy building model kits, cooking, baking, making ice cream, and working with my hands. I know my profile lacks food pics, but I promise I have tons of pics of things I’ve made that are all Keto friendly and look delicious. There’s also things that I’ve baked for family and friends too. One hobby that I would like to get into more is traveling. I’ve only been to a few places outside the Caribbean, and I’m hoping to travel more in the future. Hence, why I’m taking a vacation as it’s been over 3 years since my last trip.
I grew up in a strict Christian home, but I don’t consider myself to have any specific religious affiliation. I left that lifestyle behind after high school and while there are some values I still hold true, I don’t discriminate against anyone or push those values on others. I am monogamous, respectful, and a listener. I don’t have a problem with any religious affiliation once it’s not pushed onto me.
In truth, I’m not sure what I expect from this post. I’ve lurked on R4R for some time and have messaged a few people that caught my interest, but nothing came of it. I guess while I’m happier in life now, the loneliness has become more apparent and led me here. Meeting up to chill at Disney isn’t a requirement to send a message. It’s just a hopeful idea. I’ll be happy just to hear from anyone whose interest I gathered.
As appearances matter for many people, I don’t mind sharing a picture of myself upon request. I’m just not comfortable posting it in this message. If you do request a photo, I ask that you respond in kind with your photo as well.
Side Note: To all the guys who have messaged me wishing I was a woman, I’ve had a good laugh and appreciate the compliments.
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2023.03.23 23:41 RyluminYamata 34[M4F] Florida/Caribbean/Online - First vacation in years. Let’s go to Epcot or anywhere Disney!

I’m a simple guy. I work, pay bills, run errands, and enjoy my hobbies. Growing up, life was always envisioned as becoming highly educated, married, a nice house, children - the whole white picket fence story.
Life never goes the way one might think, especially when you grew up trying to please everyone but yourself. The past few years, I’ve worked on myself - lost 70lbs, cooking for myself, learning to say no, and indulging in the little things in life that brings me joy.
I believe I’m finally in a place where I’m happy with the way things are, except for one thing. I’ve always put romance on the back burner. While I know I have a lot of love to give, I lacked confidence and was always insecure about my weight. I’m down to 155lbs from 225lbs (thanks Keto!) and it feels amazing to not be uncomfortable in my own skin. I’m still aiming to lose 10lbs more before my trip to Disney Springs (there won’t be any dieting on vacation). It may sound like a low weight for a guy, but I’m not all that tall at 5’6”.
I come from a close-knit family, and my friends are basically my second family. This is a part of the Caribbean lifestyle. Yes, I live in the Caribbean. Location doesn’t matter when getting to know one another, and LDR isn’t a problem, but if things progress then living apart isn’t something I want. Of course there’s no rush, and I don’t expect either of us to pick up our lives and move without a proper meeting(s) and seeing how well we mesh in person. As I will be in Florida on vacation, it would be great to get some dating experience if the opportunity arises. I’ve been out of the dating scene for over 10 years and have no clue what I should be doing. Maybe dinner and a movie? Exploring Disney? Maybe that’s all too old-fashioned? I’m open to suggestions!
In terms of communication, I would like to stick to messages at first before voice chatting. I am an introvert and social anxiety bares it’s head every now and then, but I’ve also worked on both of those things during my weight loss journey. We can message on Reddit at first then move to Discord if it’s more convenient as it’s my main messaging app. I’m not big on social media, so no Snapchat or Instagram, but that’s my personal preference as I’m a fairly private person.
As I’ve mentioned Discord, I will say now that I’m a nerdy guy. Video games, Marvel, DC, Anime, Technology, etc. are all interests of mine. While I would love to have someone who shares interest in all of these things, it’s definitely not required. I consider myself well-versed in many subject matters, and my personality allows me to fit into various social groups. I can separate my hobbies from life in general. Of course, if you’re into any of these things, it would be awesome, but again, it’s not required.
I also enjoy building model kits, cooking, baking, making ice cream, and working with my hands. I know my profile lacks food pics, but I promise I have tons of pics of things I’ve made that are all Keto friendly and look delicious. There’s also things that I’ve baked for family and friends too. One hobby that I would like to get into more is traveling. I’ve only been to a few places outside the Caribbean, and I’m hoping to travel more in the future. Hence, why I’m taking a vacation as it’s been over 3 years since my last trip.
I grew up in a strict Christian home, but I don’t consider myself to have any specific religious affiliation. I left that lifestyle behind after high school and while there are some values I still hold true, I don’t discriminate against anyone or push those values on others. I am monogamous, respectful, and a listener. I don’t have a problem with any religious affiliation once it’s not pushed onto me.
In truth, I’m not sure what I expect from this post. I’ve lurked on R4R for some time and have messaged a few people that caught my interest, but nothing came of it. I guess while I’m happier in life now, the loneliness has become more apparent and led me here. Meeting up to chill at Disney isn’t a requirement to send a message. It’s just a hopeful idea. I’ll be happy just to hear from anyone whose interest I gathered.
As appearances matter for many people, I don’t mind sharing a picture of myself upon request. I’m just not comfortable posting it in this message. If you do request a photo, I ask that you respond in kind with your photo as well.
Side Note: To all the guys who have messaged me wishing I was a woman, I’ve had a good laugh and appreciate the compliments.
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2023.03.23 22:41 FrenchReaper How to maintain contact if the conversations done?

So you talk to a girl and see her. you guys have been on several dates and text.
As it goes along, it gets harder to text about shit because you know so much and there’s not much to talk/text about (especially since i’d rather talk about material in person so it’s not wasted).
how do you stay in contact with a girl you’re seeing if the conversations over? AND HOW OFTEN?
I know obviously know you set up time to hang… but is it not unreasonable to not text them at all until the. do you leave on them read? does it matter who leaves who on read if the conversations over? what do you do? do you just send snapchat pictures like???
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2023.03.23 18:14 Jacc-Is-Bacc Philosophers have nothing meaningful to say, touch grass.

Camus: "I was supposed to be a soccer star but I got sick, the world is meaningless"
Sartre: "Nothing ties you to anything so chill out, also nepotism is sick"
Nietzsche: "I became powerful/successful at a young age. powerful/successful people are objectively good."
Kierkegaard: "Individualism is all that matters. My only job for like 95% of my life is writing alone in a room."

I've always felt it was weird that so many people draw from the ideas of the dorks of the past, who are just as clouded in their judgment as literally anyone else. These are the Snapchat screenshots, Reddit posts, and tweets of the past but they are presumed to be written by someone who is above both the circumstances of their day and their own lives, as far as not tarnishing the message. I don't get it.
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2023.03.23 13:51 Saraphiene1 46 [F4TF] US/Canada - We are all a little broken but some pieces still manage to fit together.

Introduce yourself (name, location, age, gender). If you message me and don't introduce yourself with your opening message, I won't reply.
We are all a little broken but some pieces still manage to fit together. No matter how broken we are or what traumas we survive the fact we survive is like the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold called Kintsugi . Sure we were broken but once we've healed we are more beautiful then we started. The truth is we are all a little damaged, what matters is what we do with it.
Must be willing to send a selfie and eventually move to Snapchat.
What I'm looking for: I am looking for a platonic friendship, flirty is better but I don't want it to become sexual.
Me:. I am a post-op intersex (born both genders) transgender woman. I'm cool with talking about it but pretend this might be something someone might be dysphoric about and be gentle with the terminology.
Music is my everything! Music flows through my veins and if I were cut, the music would bleed out. I love pop, indie, lighter rock and anything electronic from EDM to Dubstep in either English or German. I don't like slow or depressing sounding music or most any music before 2000.
If you'd like to get to know me then open chat and introduce yourself and maybe share a link to your favorite song.
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2023.03.23 13:46 Saraphiene1 46 [F4TF] US/Canada - We are all a little broken but some pieces still manage to fit together.

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We are all a little broken but some pieces still manage to fit together. No matter how broken we are or what traumas we survive the fact we survive is like the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold called Kintsugi . Sure we were broken but once we've healed we are more beautiful then we started. The truth is we are all a little damaged, what matters is what we do with it.
Must be willing to send a selfie and eventually move to Snapchat.
What I'm looking for: I am looking for a platonic friendship, flirty is better but I don't want it to become sexual.
Me:. I am a post-op intersex (born both genders) transgender woman. I'm cool with talking about it but pretend this might be something someone might be dysphoric about and be gentle with the terminology.
Music is my everything! Music flows through my veins and if I were cut, the music would bleed out. I love pop, indie, lighter rock and anything electronic from EDM to Dubstep in either English or German. I don't like slow or depressing sounding music or most any music before 2000.
If you'd like to get to know me then open chat and introduce yourself and maybe share a link to your favorite song.
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2023.03.23 13:21 yosemitehoney What happened to 17-year old Mattias Borg? Disappeared without a trace in 2020...

Hi. I thought that I would shed some light on this frustrating case that is internationally unknown. It has been unsolved for over two years now and is one of the strangest disappearances I have ever followed. Please share your theories! My heart goes out to Mattias' family and I really hope that they will get the answers one day.
Background Mattias Borg was born in 2003 in a small town in the south of Sweden. At the time of his disappearance, he lived with his mother, Erica, and his identical twin brother named Dennis. His father had been living in Thailand since the boys where around 8 years old. Mattias was described as well-behaved and proper. He did track and field in with a local sports team and was a good runner.
The disappearance On December 4 2020, the 17-year-old attended a local house party with his twin brother and some friends. He was described to have acted normal and cheerful. According to the people present, he said "I'm leaving now" and left at around 12:30 a.m.. He allegedly sounded normal and did not seem upset or anything. After a while, his brother noticed he had left behind his shoes, wallet, mobile phone and jacket. Note that the temperature at the time was around 3-5° Celsius (37-41 °Fahrenheit) with some snow remaining on the ground from the day before. Dennis thought this was strange and went home to discover that Mattias wasn't there. Dennis and Erica went out to look for him with no luck. They contacted the police that night to repport him missing.
The last confirmed sighting of Mattias was at around 1:30 a.m.. He was seen running at full speed down a street in a residential area. He allegedly set off the alarm of a car parked down the street. The man who the car belonged to and his daughter opened the door to ask him what was going on. This daughter was acquainted with Mattias and recognized him. Mattias apparently just ran off again. At 1:54 a.m. he was caught on a local security camera. According to the police there are also many indications that he knocked on another door and asked for a glass of water at around 2-3 a.m. The resident felt uneasy and shut the door again.
There was also yelling or screaming reported in the area that night, which Erica also claims to have heard. The police have later said though that it's likely unrelated to the disappearance.
The search From the early hours of december 5 and a week forward, the police and volontiers searched extensively in the area for Mattias. Search dogs, drones and helicopters where involved. The local river was searched by boat and underwater drones. In the coming months there would also be divers searching the river. Unfortunately all these efforts would result in pretty much nothing.
A sock would later be found in a wooded area. The police, however, refused to run a DNA-test on it. Erica took matters into her own hands and contacted a professor in forensic genetics at a university, who agreed to test the sock. The results did in fact show that the sock likely had been worn by Mattias or his identical twin brother. Erica has said that there is no doubt in her mind that the sock belonged to Mattias. She explained: ”It hurts so much because I know what the place looked like where the sock was found. It is difficult terrain and it is far from the residential area [where he was last seen] //…// ”There are small holes in the front of the sock. Under the toes. It proves that he ran on his toes in the terrain.”.
The snapchat message I didn't know if I should include this or not, make of this information what you will. Erica got a series of messages on snapchat that went
”I know where your son is, SEK 25,000 and you will get the information I know." ”Ok, so you don't think it's worth 25,000 to find him.” I will go down to SEK 15,000. But otherwise what will be will be, don't cry then if it's too late.”
She then receives information that Mattias where to be found at a farm located on the other side of the river in relation to where he was last seen. However, the farm was searched but nothing came of it.
Theories There has been a lot of speculation surrounding this case. Based off of the information we currently have, there are a few popular theories.

  1. Drugs. There are a lot of rumors and speculations about Mattias and his friends where dabbling in drugs. Maybe he took something during and went into a drug induced psychosis (or a non-drug related psychosis)? This would explain the serious of odd behaviors displayed that night. Maybe he ran off and accidentally fell into the river? Maybe he fell asleep somewhere in the woods and died from hyperthermia? This theory obviously has a lot of holes in it, for example, wouldn’t anyone at the party eventually come clean about the use of drugs during the interrogations? Wouldn’t his body have been found by now if it all was accidental? Erica has also said that she is unaware of any drug use from her sons (although mothers don’t always know everything going on in their teenage children lives).
  2. Kidnapping. Maybe Mattias was kidnapped by someone that night. That would explain why no evidence or body was ever found, if he was picked up by a car and was taken somewhere else. It could also, at least partly explain why he was running and acting so strange. Maybe he was trying to avoid the person who was after him and acting so odd due to being frightened? Maybe the snapchat-message Erica received was actually legit and not a hoax? It does seem unlikely though that Mattias' mind would be so clouded that he didn’t think of asking anyone he came across for help. There also seems to be a lack of motives for why someone would kidnap him.
  3. The friends. There has also been speculation that the people at the party had something to do with his disappearance. A lot of the information we have from that night is based off of what the friends he hung out with that night have said. But maybe there is something that they are not telling the police. Maybe there was an argument that got out of hand? Maybe thats why he left in such a hurry that he just left everything and bolted. However, all these people where kids his age. How could a group of regular 17-year-olds be responsible for disappearance like this and get away with it for so long? Also, since so many people must have been involved or at least known/suspected something, you would assume someone would eventually crack or accidentally deviate from the cover story. Another aspect of this is that if this theory is correct than Dennis must have been in on it, which feels highly unlikely. It is said that the twin brothers had a turbulent relationship, but 1) a lot of siblings do and 2) I just don’t think his own twin brother would do something like that, despite how bad their relationship got.
  4. Crime of opportunity. This theory is in my opinion unlikely and it does not explain his odd behaviors, but let’s say that Mattias for whatever reason ended up in the woods or on the side of a road and just bumped into the wrong people. That would explain why the police still have no suspects, because the person/people responsible where completely random, who just found Mattias in a vulnerable state and decided to trick him into their car, maybe with the promise of driving him home again. This is perhaps also why the investigation hasn’t lead anywhere, because the police and media has been so distracted by the weird things leading up to the crime that the crime itself it went seemingly unnoticed.
Image of Mattias Image of Mattias

Sources:
https://www.storytel.com/se/books/del-1-f%C3%B6rsvinnandet-saknad-i-ljungby-1724462 https://nyheter24.se/nyheteinrikes/1106132-tidslinje-tva-ar-sedan-mattias-forsvann-det-har-har-hant https://sverigesradio.se/avsnitt/har-nagon-sett-mattias-forsvunnen-och-saknad https://sverigesradio.se/artikel/tva-ar-sedan-mattias-forsvann-jag-tanker-pa-det-varje-dag https://www.aftonbladet.se/story/forsvunne-mattias-borg-17
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2023.03.23 06:10 justclasher Is my friend secretly helping me?

One day, my friend uploaded a status on WhatsApp and I replied asking the location and then deleted the message as there was no reply for few hours and I also thought that it doesn't matter whether I know the location or not.
Leter, them replied (on the deleted message which then saw earlier). I said sorry for deleting the message and also told that my friends (a separate group) usually cancels the plan and I will feel more bad because now I know the location also. To which them replying that they are okay with deleting the message and is not mad at me.
But just after that incident, them stopped sending me snaps on snapchat (which them usually send me). I think that them don't want to show whether them is going so that I feel good or it's just a coincidence and them just stopped because of their own choice.
I afraid to ask them directly because we know each but not very much and also them is 1 year junior to me (in my college). Can anyone advice what should I do or just leave it and act normal?
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2023.03.23 04:47 Big-Influence-7843 Kid rides

I have to drive kids right now to eat. I will untangle the rest of this mess when I get back. It would save a lot of time if someone would tell me instead of me having to watch this girl sending me her videos on snapchat. At the end of this, the two OG's are going to be just fine. The details don't even matter. Love doesn't just die. We'll show you. Weirdest shit ever. Some of you people need a hobby or something.
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2023.03.23 04:44 Usual_Cauliflower841 My daughter's dad groomed me & is a pedophile. What do I do? [Trigger Warning]

This is a very, very long story with only a small fraction of the full details and is a little messy. But, I would really appreciate anyone who takes the time to read this and give me their thoughts. I want to try to get full custody of my daughter and I am looking for insight and advice. This is a long story, but I want to get the whole picture out.
TL;DR
My ex husband groomed me when I was 13 and he was 18/19, had sexual relations with me at 13, married me at 20. He was controlling, emotionally manipulative, and displayed narcissistic tendencies. He got fired as a teacher for sexting an 8th grade student, but I believed his lies when he said he didn't do it. He then was creepy to other middle school girls at a private school, but I din't know yet. Years later, I get pregnant and discover I am a lesbian. I have an affair, finally leave him, he manipulates everyone into me being the only bad guy. A year later I find out about the sexting with a a 13 year old and him cheating throughout our entire 13 year relationship wit multiple affairs. I confronted him and he admitted everything and went to therapy as all lawyers said I would not win full custody. I now have a 4 year old with him and regret not trying for full custody before because I am so scared for my daughter as she grows older. He can't even protect his daughter from a different predator. There is no way I can trust him, but I also feel like I have no hope going to court as his family has all the money, I don't, and there were no charges pressed. I want to confront him to convince him to let me have full custody. What the heck can I do to keep my daughter safe if I can't win full custody in courts?
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When I was 13, I met my ex husband and my now daughter's dad. At the time, he was 18 (almost 19) and worked as a teaching assistant at my mom's small private school while he was a sophomore in college (he graduated a year early). We started texting and saying things like "I heart you" pretty quickly before my mom found out. My mom was a little upset the first night she saw the texts, but the next day, essentially said it was okay to be in a relationship with him despite the age difference. Within a few months we were engaged in a very sexual relationship and my mom knew, even letting me sleep over at his house many times. Keep in mind that before this, I was a super innocent 13 year old who didn't even know what sex was. But, I was essentially told by my mom I need to please him. She also even gave me many sex books. From there, my ex and I remained together (for the most part with a couple of short breaks- during one of the breaks, my mom convinced my ex to get back with me comparing me to Playdoh that can be molded however he likes) and at 19, he proposed. I said yes and we were married. I was 20 about to graduate college and he was 26 at the time of getting married. At this time, I was about to be a teacher and he was already a teacher.
Looking back, there were many, many red flags in the relationship. He was very controlling and got flirty and close with other girls often. He would even save pictures of friends that were girls on his computer so he could masturbate to them. There is obviously the age thing too. He would often gaslight me and control me in many ways. What happened though the school year after we got married was the biggest red flag of all. I got a call from him that the police came to his school he worked at and interrogated him about sexting an 8th grade student. He assured me he did not do this and that the girl was lying and must be covering up for an actual older boyfriend she had. I was young and dumb and believed him, and he begged me not to tell anyone, so I didn't. He got fired for lying or something like that, but no police action was ever taken. Since he lost his job, he had to work as an Uber driver and at Target to make money, and I was a little lonely and thought I could make more money too, so I began streaming video games and was soon making decent money doing that on top of my teaching job. I continued to do this for a few years and in 2 of the years, I made money similar to what I did as a teacher (but not including taxes or insurance).
Fast forward about 4-5 years later, he was now working at my mom's private school as a middle school teacher and we decided we wanted to have a baby. So, after a couple of months, I get pregnant. I am still streaming and meet a woman, let's call her Brooke. Brooke and I became friends and a few months later, she flies across the country to meet me in person. A few weeks after meeting in person, we start texting a lot, start calling each other best friends, and feelings develop very quickly. The feelings were so so much different than I ever felt with my ex and I fully realize that I am gay. However, I am absolutely terrified as I am pregnant and have a baby on the way and cut things off before I have my daughter and tell my ex husband about everything that happened. So, I have my daughter, but Brooke still had tickets to visit me after my daughter's birth, and my husband still wanted her to come out to visit, forgiving everything and thinking we could be friends. Brooke comes to my house for a week while I am on maternity leave and I still definitely have feelings for her. We don't talk about it or do anything until the day before she is supposed to leave, when we hold hands. I felt things I have never felt before. I felt like a middle schooler giddy for the first time doing so. But, I tell her we can't do anything and I tell my ex husband that we held hands and what I told her.
Now, looking back, I would definitely do things differently and cut things off with my ex husband right then and there. Unfortunately, I didn't. I was essentially terrified of being without my ex husband. He treated me like a child often and so did my mom, and I truly thought I couldn't do things on my own. It is easy to see all the signs of being groomed now, but I didn't at the time. I truly did not feel strong enough to do so and still thought my ex husband was a great person. My biggest fear though was not having my daughter full time and how a divorce would affect her. That was the hardest thing about all of this. A few months go by with Brooke and I continuing to text constantly, but just as best friends. During these months, my ex and I fight a lot and I continue to feel very controlled. However, it escalates again with Brooke and I begin having an affair with Brooke for 6 months before finally telling my ex I want to leave him and that I figured out I am a lesbian and fell in love with Brooke.
Telling my ex husband was the scariest thing I have ever done in my life as I felt like my whole life was planned for since I was 13. I had no idea what I was going to do and was still terrified of how it would my daughter and being away from her half the time. He freaked the heck out and threatened to get a gun from the house to unalive himself with. He yelled and bawled and was very upset obviously. Time goes by and we separate but continue to live in the same house. I talk to him about selling the house and splitting it, but he is adamant he does not want to leave the house. After about a week though, he finds a new girlfriend and starts to accept that I am lesbian. We have many talks about it all and I apologize many times. Covid then hits and we are stuck in the same house for months. From when I told him about the affair to this point in time, my ex acts devastated all the time. He constantly posts to Facebook with stories and posts about breaking his heart and about going through a lot of hard times. He tells everyone what I did, mutual friends, family, everyone. Me and him have many talks and he, without asking, says he never cheated on me ever throughout our 12-13 years together.
I should mention that throughout this also, my mom was very very mad at me, forcing to apologize to her many, many times because my ex now had to stop working at her school and how it affected her. She tried to convince me I wasn't gay and saying my feelings for Brooke would fade. After months of apologizing for my divorce, I finally got sick of having to apologize for something I did not do to her and we got into a fight for awhile. Throughout this time as well, my mom would say things to my ex like he's lucky he can find a new wife, she can't find a new daughter. She continued to text him and was very cold to me.
Finally, a few months into Covid, I find a really nice condo that I can afford and is safe, look at it the same day it got posted online, and got the place to move out. I move out and we begin having to coparent with 50-50 custody. At this time, he has had a couple girlfriends and turns very cold to me. It all changes though when I need my computer that I used for streaming (I stopped when I had my daughter) back from our house to use for online teaching. I get the computer back and notice he is logged into all of his social media and everything and also notice his password is something like Fallontoldme1! and Fallon is my sister's name. In my head, I am like what did my sister tell him and I begin looking through his social media. I easily find much evidence that he was cheated on me multiple times throughout our marriage, including having affairs. At this point though, I have left him though and decide it doesn't matter. It just shows how two-faced he is that he let me take the fall for everything when he had cheated on me many times way before I did. But, I let it go.
A few months after, I then have a suggest friend pop up on my Facebook and recognize the name as the 8th grade student who supposedly framed my ex for sexting her and notice she is now friends with my ex on Facebook. I am very curious as to why this a thing and log back on to my ex's Facebook and go to his messages. I don't remember what exactly the now I believe 18 year old girl said, but in the conversation, my ex said one line of saying sorry to her for anything he did or something like that. At this point, my mind is reeling. One, I am now thinking that he actually did sext the 13 year old 8th grade student and that terrifies me as he obviously has my daughter half the time. I am also thinking about how manipulative he was to act like such a victim and tell everyone about what I did, when he cheated many, many times and had some sort of relations with a child. (I know I was 13 and he was 18/19 at the time, but in my mind, I did not see that as bad since we got married and I thought he loved me.)
I then call several lawyers to try to see if I have a case to have full custody of my now 2 year old daughter since he groomed me and another 13 year old girl. Every single one essentially said no, that he was not charged with anything and best case scenario he goes to therapy or something and then gets custody again as he hasn't done anything to my daughter. I get the nerve to message the 8th grade student, throughout the times I am talking to lawyers, who is now 18 to see if I can figure anything else out, and she messages me back. She tells me that she was messaging my ex to try to feel him out and see if his new girlfriend got a message she sent her telling her about what the ex did to her. She then proceeds to tell me what actually happened when he got fired from his teaching job. He was sexting her multiple times and a student behind her in class saw one of the Snapchats they sent each other. That student told another teacher, which started the process of him getting fired. However, at the time, the 8th grade student would not admit anything to cops and the cops had nothing to go on as everything they did was on Snapchat. It is also my understanding that, at the time this happened, Snapchat did not have the ability to see previous messages. The school district fired him for lying essentially, but did not have enough to press charges. The 8th grade student who is now 18 realizes now how gross everything was and was trying to warn the new girlfriend.
After finding that this happened for sure, I am even more furious. I come up with a plan to at least get him to admit he did it and go from there. I confront him and he adamantly denies it multiple times- bawling, crying, saying he would never even cheat on me and he was so in love with me. During one of these times, he threatens to take his life by swallowing pills. I tell him that if threatens that again, I will call the police. Finally, I go to his house one night after my daughter is asleep and threaten that I will go talk to lawyers (knowing I already have) to get him to admit the truth. He finally admits to everything with the 8th grade student and way more than I thought. He essentially cheated on me our entire 13 years together, before marriage, after marriage, while I was trying to get pregnant. I tell him he needs to go to weekly therapy and I am telling his mom to hold him accountable. I also tell him he needs to find another job other than teaching. I tell his mom who is pretty horrified to hear about everything. At this point, I am happy the truth is out of the bag and I can now see him for what he is- a two faced, lying, manipulative pedophile who clearly has a thing for middle school girls. I also truly believed and almost still do that there is nothing I can do with him having 50-50 custody of our daughter. At this point, he was being an okay dad and I couldn't believe he would do anything to her. But, she was and still is my biggest concern in all of this, and the reason I confronted him in the first place.
It has been 2 years since all of this and my daughter is now 4. Besides that big confrontation, we only talked about it 2 or 3 times soon after with me making sure he was going to therapy. But, he has now stopped going to therapy and even more information has come to light. I learned that while he was working at my mom's private school, the then middle school aged girls all found him creepy. One would email him in the middle of the night about personal things, but he got smart and only responded verbally. I have learned that he would stand behind the girls pressing his pelvis into their back, touching one of the girl's leg, and things like that.
I also told my ex a little while ago that I did not want my daughter around one of my older cousins (who is a dad to 3 older kids) who I found out recently is also a predator. My ex, who is good friends with this cousin as he moved into our old house to help with money right after I moved out initially, told my cousin I said this and now my cousin's family hates me because they think I was spreading lies about the dad. I wasn't, but I can't tell the family that as it is not my story to tell and the victim of his does not want to ruin their family. I am seriously pissed off that not only is my ex a pedophile with me being 13 when stuff happened, sexting an 8th grade student while he is in his mid 20's, and with being a creep to more middle school girls, he also couldn't even do the bare minimum of keeping his daughter safe. All he had to do was keep him away from her and not say anything, but he chose again, to say things he did not need to.
Now, I have been stewing over all of this for a little bit talking to my therapist and others about what I should do. I am absolutely terrified that when my daughter gets old, he is going to do something to her, or her friends, or just be a bad person. I am worried my relationship with my daughter will be eventually ruined when she finds out what he did, even if he does end up doing nothing to her, and I let him have her half the time. This weekend, I want to finally confront him. He acts like me and him are buddies and nothing ever happened. He continues to be an asshole sometimes, with us having arguments or him not bathing our daughter or brushing her teeth. I also am the one to do everything for my daughter- sign her up for gymnastics, swim lessons, soccer, doctors appointment, birthday parties, etc. I love doing everything and none of that truly matters though because all I want to do is protect her from him. I want to ask him what we are going to do if she gets older and finds this out (there are so many people that know and I do not want to lie to her for him), how I am supposed to trust him given everything he has done and continues to do. I want him to just let me have her full time with supervised visitation, but I do not think he will go for that, but I am going to try my hardest to try to get that.
I am going back on forth on how to go about this. I don't think I would win in courts as my daughter loves him too and has a relationship with him now and since he has never been charged with anything. I also am a teacher with very little money and he comes from a family that has a lot of money to help. I also know my daughter would be affected if she doesn't live with her dad anymore and I wish I would have just fought this battle 2 years ago. But, I need to keep her safe above all. Are there other ways to protect her that I am thinking about?
He also currently lives with his girlfriend and her 3 older kids who are really awesome to my daughter. The girlfriend doesn't know about everything and I also want to sit down with her and tell her everything. She hasn't been the warmest at all and is very submissive to my ex letting him control everything. Someone else tried telling her and I don't think she believed them (or else why would she still be with him?), so I haven't been sure if she would believe me. I also want to add that I am still with Brooke and she moved across the country 1.5 years ago. We are engaged and going to get married in June.
If you have gotten to the point, thank you. There are so so so many more stories related to all of this regarding my ex, especially my mom, my family, etc. that I could talk about. For so long, so many people were okay with me being 13 and him being 18/19 and everyone thought it was okay that I thought I was the crazy one for finally being extremely creeped out about it. It took a long time for me to even say my ex was a pedophile and I still am working on the effects of being groomed and manipulated for so long. I know having an affair was wrong and would go back and do things differently now. I truly believe though that Brooke made me stronger and helped me get out of that situation. If it weren't for her, I still think I would be with him and wouldn't see all the red flags or know everything he has done. I would be unhappy and my daughter would not grow up seeing a loving, healthy relationship. But, it still stands that my biggest concern is something happening to my daughter as she gets older given his history and inability to even protect her from another predator.
My question is, I guess, what the heck would you do in my shoes? What would you say to him when confronting him? Is there something I am not seeing or thoughts you have about it all that might help? How can I protect my daughter in the best way? Could I have a shot in courts?
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